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I recently broke up with my boyfriend.

He is in my grade and im in year 7 so i see him every single weekday. He is clear to the fact that we broke up and told me he is tottally alright with it. But he has still been flirting with me and acting no different to when we were going out.
Eg. He always passes the ball to me when playing sport, we lock eyes sometimes, etc.
The only problem is that i have a new boyfriend and i dont plan on telling my ex because he will get the impression that thats why i dumped him.

:S :S :S :S

help.

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velvettundr offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

tell him. It will b better that way because right now he is feeling like u two can get back together and there is no reason to lead him on. It’s not your fault but it would b better if he knew so he can move on too

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*MJ* offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Queen Creek, AZ, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I agree with velevttundr, Ive been there, it does 0 good to not tell him.. It looks a thousand times worse when you try to hide it then the person finds out. this is true with parents, relationships etc. I know its hard to tell the person at first but you will feel soooo much better in the long run, trust me. Good luck

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (15 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Yea i agree with everyone, tell him. hard as it may be it will make you feel better too..

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