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I just need to talk, today my best friend of 10 years

said she doesn’t want to be friends anymore, I just got back from the hospital as my gran is dying and I have a headache and can’t sleep and I’m not really sure what else to do

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PollyinLove offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Aww hun :( You must be going through a rough spot…Don’t worry about your best friend right now…You need to mourn your gran and worrying about other problems isn’t good. Maybe your friend is going thorugh a hard time too…

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Help me with: I’m so over feeling like a loser with no friends.
bipasakhann offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Dont worry!! Just be positive in all situations!!

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1 year, 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

It’s hard tho isn’t it. Too stay positive all the time, how do you pull yourself out from the little dips?

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Polly is right…we ALL have been there and “do that!” It so shall pass! Life has it’s twist and turn and we keep going. You will be fine and your friend just had a bad moment. And, so sorry about your gran!

Hugs!!!!!!!

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crazynified offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

staying positive sure is hard… but whatever hardships come about, you got to remember it sure will pass… and there is a reason for everything that happens. Sorry bout your gran… maybe your friend also has some other problems… don’t get rough on yourself about problems you’re facing… they will pass!

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

Cry baby, it’s a good thing. The eye needs to cry to cleanse itself from the inside out. Do not believe that anyone is suppose to be or is happy all the time. Unless their on drugs, and then they are not truly human in their natural emotions, are they? Life is hard and friends/family will let you down. Give yourself a beak, let your emotions out and tomorrow is a new day, the sun will rise or the rain will fall, and you will see the beauty again.

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