life help: Fantastic… now my car died on top of it all… I can’t afford this, I was about to start living in that car…. - Help.com

KathLEEn Belle
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Fantastic…

now my car died on top of it all… I can’t afford this, I was about to start living in that car…. ugh. I can’t keep this up. It’s too much now.

I don’t know why I even ask for support here, I’m not finding it. The last time I posted it was flagged so no one read it and I didn’t even curse in it.

I need help and lots of it. ::sigh:: Why do I have so many adult problems yet still get treated like a child everywhere I go? I’ve bought more brand new refridgerators in the last 2 years than most people have in their entire adult lives.

I wish June never ever happened. All I can do is sit and sob and I can barely get anything done at work my mind is so frantic with everything else I need to be doing.

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lifeless offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

What happened in June?

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KathLEEn Belle offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

lifeless wrote:
What happened in June?

My little brother in law (person who came over the most often) killed himself and then 2 days later my house and everything in it was destroyed in the flood.

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lifeless offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Ouch.. this really is horrible, I am sorry for you. But about your house, aren’t you insured? Arent there charity organisations?
What is with family, relatives, friends?
Explain…

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KathLEEn Belle offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

lifeless wrote:
Ouch.. this really is horrible, I am sorry for you. But about your house, aren’t you insured? Arent there charity organisations?
What is with family, relatives, friends?
Explain…

I have been getting some financial help with the house. But its all very time consuming and tiring to get all organized with the amount of paperwork to do. I didn’t have flood insurance. The house itself is going to take all my money and then some. Plus the car transmission went out and is going to take at least $1500 and I can’t use FEMA money or any other financial aid for that.

I have some family helping with the house work/construction, but its been slow and difficult for them too because they’ve been busy with trying to cope with their loss as well. I just hope to be able to get in by winter which is fast approaching because I’ll have no place else to stay after November 11.

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Amie offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

I went back and read your old posts.. you have obviously dealt with a lot. I don’t have any advice, but you are a very strong person to have been dealing with all of this. You may be exhausted, but I don’t believe your defeated. Stay strong, things will get fixed through all your hard work.

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lifeless offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

I understand… I believe you, that this takes its time, but right now do you have place to stay other than your car?
Its gruesome what happened to you, but at least you have people to help. Maybe you can all work at ONE house, the biggest one where when you are finished you all, when the worst comes worst, are allowed to live in? When the winter comes faster? And so you try to make one house after another, not to work a little on every house. Or are you already doing that?
is this an opinion anyhow? I dont know, just a suggestion.

But I think that you will make this, you are strong and you can go on. Help each other and you will get over this time. There will come better times and I hope for you that your house will be finished before winter comes. With time you’ll get enough money for all the reperations, just dont give up, when you’Ve come so far ExhaustedDeafeated.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 181 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

how are you on the internet if you dont have a house or anywhere to live

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KathLEEn Belle offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Urine Sane wrote:
how are you on the internet if you dont have a house or anywhere to live

I’m at work.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 181 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 hours, 30 minutes after post)

seems you need a new job that actually pays money.

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Luck of the Irish offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day after post)

Well then you should have a wage, couldn’t you use that!

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