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My brother was injured in a car accident and is partially paralyzed.

he is totally in love with his home health nurse. she is always good to him. he told me that she gves him hand jobs. he’s 20 so he’s adult. can’t she get in trouble? but i don’t really want to say anything to my folks bc he is so in love with her. plus she’s nice and pretty. part of me is happy for him, bc his girlfriend left him after the accident. should i be worried?

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closed offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 53 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Does he have any mental problems since the accident.
If he can’t be held responsible, then I can’t see her getting into trouble unless someone else told.
I would assume she’s doing it with his consent?

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inamerica offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

he speaks through a letterboard and sometimes a computer. he’s still smart. i’m sure he wants it. like i said, he in love with her.

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

They are two consenting adults, I say good for him.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 223 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

babacup wrote:
They are two consenting adults, I say good for him.

amen.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

I would maybe monitor the situation.
If he’s happy…
It would be difficult to speak to her about it, as she would know your brother told…and she might quit with embarrassment.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

cailean wrote:
Does he have any mental problems since the accident.If he can’t be held responsible, then I can’t see her getting into trouble unless someone else told.I would assume she’s doing it with his consent?

Should have been…….then I can see her getting into trouble…

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1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

I’d say she’s in big trouble already and is in jeopardy of losing her license. You may be complicit if you don’t report it immediately to the authorities.

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qbnightmare2 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Grand Rapids, MI, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

I’d say leave what is be. Because he has suffered this kind of tragedy to his life and impacted even his relationships. Let him be, if it helps any talk to your brother about it and get everything straightened before you make any snap decisions get his side of the story and ask what’s really going on.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 223 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I’d say she’s in big trouble already and is in jeopardy of losing her license. You may be complicit if you don’t report it immediately to the authorities.

So, the brother loves her… So she should get in trouble… okay…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

i definitely won’t tell if she will get in trouble. he went thru lots of nurses in the beginning. not all of them took good care of him.

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