Feel help: I just drunk dialed my ex. - Help.com

You put on foot in front of the other and move on.

drunk dials are bad.
i would know. i’m drunk right nowww.
but yeah. you have to give it up eventually 3

woah. not what i meant.
You’re better than your ex. They suuck obviously

i just feel really sad right now…all over again like when it first happened. and i know i shouldn’t have done that, it was just a weak moment….but how do i make myself feel better about it right now?

i try so bloody hard not to… its stressful, you kno now that he’s an idiot. obviously he didn’t deserve you, and now that you guys are over he can’t give you proper closure then F* it, what a dope!!! he’ll never hav a good relationship if he does that to girls…

If we forgot every dumb thing we did, how would we learn anything? Are you able to apologize? Are you able to do something nice to make up for what you have done?

you aren’t over sumthin, or he never gave you that closure when you guys broke it off… girl there are soo much fish in the sea, phone a friend a vent, take your mind off it for now cuz later on it won’t even matter,

honestly, i dont think that i in any way owe him an apology! are you serious??
i just made myself feel bad by doing that, he doesnt give a shi*…at the most he was just annoyed to be “bothered” by me

BadInfluence23 wrote:
you aren’t over sumthin, or he never gave you that closure when you guys broke it off… girl there are soo much fish in the sea, phone a friend a vent, take your mind off it for now cuz later on it won’t even matter,

thanks you are sweet! i know you’re right..i am just feeling terrible right now. i wish i hadnt done that..it just gave him more of a reason to think he’s better than me and for him to look down his nose at me even more

why cuz you got drunk and dailed his worthless ***??? thats stupid, if you happen to push him away first i bet he’d b at your door or callin you many times more then your once… you seem like such a nice girl to be puttin yourself thru so much torture for a guy that obviously didn’t deserve you in the first place!! :)

it’s already been 3 months and he was definitely the one to push me away….he dumped me and immediately would have nothing to do with me (after we had been together for a year and a half) and then 3 weeks later started dating someone else. i know it’s pathetic…i need to get over it, it obviously wasnt the something special that i thought it was…but it’s so hard. i know he’ll never come back to me and it just makes me feel so sad and like such a loser.

hes not guna hav productive relationships like that, be glad that your out of his life… sum dudes guna come along and sweep you off your feet, for the time bein you need to occupy your time, havin a moment of weakness is OK really, who the helI cares if hes thinks less of you, hes not important right now, you are… hes dumb… figure out it was a lesson learnd, experience helps wit successful reltionships… and again hes dumb… lol

your tears are priceless girlie and shouldn’t be waste on ignorance

HELP.com needs spell check seriously!!!!

Once you accept what happened (what you just said about it) and that the relationship is over, time will help you.
IMO, its really the approach you give to the situatuion.
If in 3 months you are still after him or contacting him, you should cut the contact, accept what happened, cry (let it out), and move on because you are not giving yourself the chance to heal.

i just feel like such a pathetic person right now

I think you’re letting thish clown off to easy. I think you should calls him up right now and let him know a ting or two about a ting or too. Go ‘head hand me da phone I’ll let him know, I’ll let him know he can’t be treatin you thish way. No WAY MAN! Not on my wash.

lol aww

of course its undertandable how your feelin right now… ive been there, but i was wit the this dude for over 5 years, man i give my head a shake ever time, like why?? really, was i wit him??…. honestly its been awhile months and months and i still call him up cuz thats my sad spot, (he’s the “father” of my beautiful baby boy) so much resentment and sooo much anger im yet to let go… can’t help but to sit and wonder WTH? i feel ya… its hard… your brain doesn’t kno wat to do, but jus to be sad… its ok to feel the way you are feelin but i kno and u kno, its the hardest thing ever, to let go of sumthin that felt sooo real…

Anonymous wrote:
i just feel like such a pathetic person right now

I understand.
Some of us handle situations differently than others.
You may feel like that, but I don’t think you are a pathetic person.

Based on your life in general Anon poster….do you think yourself as pathetic?

You’ll feel better.

Anonymous wrote:
honestly, i dont think that i in any way owe him an apology! are you serious??
i just made myself feel bad by doing that, he doesnt give a shi*…at the most he was just annoyed to be “bothered” by me

Does wrong justify a wrong? What you feel more or less pathetic for admitting your mistake?

you gotta realize that you felt that way, and he didn’t… you deserve 2 b loved, jus as much, as the love you give… when your at the point it seems sooo hard… :s its tough… but trust me its soo worth the experience cuz then your smarter then b4 & stronger then b4. if i had a special bandaid, i would give it to you :)

aw thanks badinfluence..i feel like you really understand what i’m saying and going through…
after we were broken up for a month, i found out i was pregnant with his baby….i ended up having a miscarriage but he was very very unsupportive throughout the whole thing and wasnt there for me at all. the next month we tried being friends, but i couldnt handle it and ended up telling him i couldnt hang around him at that point in time because it hurt me too bad to still be in love with him and know he was in a relationship with someone else already…he basically said whatever, suit yourself, and let me be….but then this month, i bumped in to him and we were both a little drunk, and he was really realllly friendly, and it through me off. i thought maybe he might still have feelings for me. then he stayed at my apartment a couple nights, secretly (you see he’s friends with one of my roomates and had no where else to stay, so my roomate let him sneak in without me knowing) and it just made me so confused, so i couldnt help but call him tonight. but he dissed me so hard AGAIN. i said i just wanted to talk and he acted like i was some crazy bitc* and couldn’t possibly understand why i would still have anything to talk to him about. ugh i really hate him.

By the way…KALOS, i hope after reading this, you realize that you misinterpreted this post and are giving completely off-topic “advice”. i cant even guess as to what you think i should be for apologizing for??? calling him and asking him to talk??? wtf?

Thanks for explaining the circumstances. I did not understand the nature of your call. I am sorry for the way he treated you. I wish you the best.

Aww don’t feel bad. This guy sounds like an *** and he isn’t very understanding. Erase him from your phone book/email and hang out with some friends this weekend. Get dressed up and feel good about yourself. :) You sound sweet to me :)