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i’m too shy

and it scares everyone away. help.
i want to change but i can’t seem to

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Good ole boy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

normally, being introverted tends to draw more attention to oneself. but in the rare case that it repels people, you might want find social activities and try to participate. being social will show people you’re cordial in nature, and compel them to converse with you more.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Join a club you know someone in or get in to a play or something like that. It will help you connect with people more. Just try not to be afraid to do new things and be yourself. Poeple like someone who is sure of who they are.

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1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

So am I. Welcome to the farm….

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1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

i used to be so shy, i know how you feel. to be honest, there is not much that anyone can say to help you, just some words of wisdom really, you have got to be ure of who you are. who knows, being shy is proably just part of who you are and people will understand that. you shouldnt try to change for anyone, if scares people away it just means they are not worth it. that something ive learnt. x

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