Love help: Giving up smoking Cannabis, makes dreams painful to make you go get some. - Help.com

I think you should just be happy about starting to dream again.
And in fact, the pain in reality comes from the inbalance between your fantasy world and real world, which should actually motivate you the work on your real world. That’s the only way -I can say- to find hapiness after drug periods.

Because: you’ve been day dreaming the entire day when you were on it. That made you happy but in a place distant from the world. Now the only thing that’s happening is you returning your eyes to the “real” world. That gives you a chance to try creating your dreams on the real world.
You should celebrate it, and use the pain for consturction. And you should celebrate the fact that you’re now mostly aware of many inner desires you have.

Take it easy,
gl
you can talk to me about it anytime you want,

BTW: I’m feeling for your loss. But the fact that you’re remembering her so often, is sort of a need for security. When you dream yourself with her, you probably feel yourself secure. Feeling of insecurity is most common in your case. Just know that, she made you what you are now. And respecting yourself and your life, you’ll keep the meaning of her’s.

Well, green, I don’t think you’re on the right track now. You should respect everyone’s judgement for himself. You shouldn’t try to validate yourself over others’ decisions…

sorry for the offense btw.

fair enough ludicer.. i gotta say your making a lot of sense. But i never went out with this girl or anything just fell inlove with her when my friends friend was going out with her… then we spent a lot of time together and when we kissed my friend walked in. havent seen her since then.

Yet you still carry the feeling, that it’s gives pain to you. It’s not nothing even you didn’t experience alot together. Can’t that be enough to create a strong symbol for yourself.
There are so many who change their entire lives over a single moment of experience.

your post really tugged on my heart strings. Reality is harsh. Hopefully you will meet someone else who means just as much if not more.