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don’t rush it you have a lot of learning to do with each other i understand because you don’t want to deal with the problems that you guys have with your family but don’t rush and no nothing wrong with you you just going through the first stage of a relationship and i’m not going to say it puppy love and all that crap but if you know deep down its not going to last then don’t put all your hopes up just tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels about your relationship and are you ready to pay bills and food are you ready for that kind of stress just take you time and make sure you to be honost with each other and dont blame critize are anything if you want it to last u just in the first stage and you feel all gaga over him and also make sure you to have space so you to both to grow as well just make sure he has postive friends that are on the same level as him cuz you don’t want him to have friends that cheat are play games with gurls cuz they will be a bad influnce on him and i know you did ask but if you really love him and really want to stay with him for a long term don’t expect change, change will come nature

sounds to me like he’s not hitting all of your buttons. Your looking for something from him he’s not able to give you. There’s nothing wrong with you for feeling this way in fact it’s quiet common…he’s got say 90% of everything you want in a man and we all assume we can just iron out the creases in the rest but it doesn’t work like that sadly. we need to accept them as who they are and that include’s the fact that he wants to spend time with his friends, which is fine too, except that your not on the same page about it… i have a feeling that this will continue if you buy a house together, problems don’t change just because your living patterns change. in fact in my experance it only esclated..but let me know if it works would love to be proven wrong on this one :)

Wooo I think that is called obsession really, you want to control him and that will push him away, if you move in together your demands of him will get more extreme..
Is that the reason why you know it won’t last?