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Hereford, F7, GB

My Boyfriend thinks Im wierd…

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Well my bf lives in shared housing… So every now and then he has residents meetings
He went to one today and when he came back he smelt wierd
And the only way I could describe it was that he smelt like lies or deciet
He actually smelt like it! And he thought I was joking
He laughed and said “are you serious” and I could swear I saw a guilty glint in his eye….
Hm
Smells like lies…

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Winter Rose offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

That is not weird. If something was seriously up, then it’s not a surprise that you could sense it. Whether it was just a feeling, or you really did smell it, take advantage of it. It may be like… a sixth sense or something. What do you think he was lying about?

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Winter Rose offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

Not a bad point. Do you think you can trust him?

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Hereford, F7, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

Well thats the thing he went through a random stage of lying and decieving me
And thats what he smelt like then and now I can smell it again! Its wierd at first I though I was bein paranoid until I saw the look in his eyes when he pointed out
A new resident moved in next door to him
I think it could be something to do with that lol
O well Ill talk to him about it tomorrow

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Hereford, F7, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Btw the new resident is a girl
and I meant “Pointed it out to him”
Not “He pointed out”

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Winter Rose offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

Well, I wish you luck with that. It’s good that you’re going to talk to him.

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Hereford, F7, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Oh did I say “talk”
I meant “Kick his A S S”
:p

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 135 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

[PorkChop wrote:
]Oh did I say “talk”
I meant “Kick his A S S”
:p

A bit premature, you have no proof of any misconduct…

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Winter Rose offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

… I thought it was pretty funny… lol

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 135 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

Fully Alive wrote:
… I thought it was pretty funny… lol

Oh, it was a joke… Why don’t I feel silly now…

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____________________ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (30 minutes after post)

What do lies and deceit smell like? o.O

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kemmy offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

NisaANYgirl wrote:
What do lies and deceit smell like? o.O

Thats what I was wondering. Wouldnt that be helpful to be able to smell it!

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____________________ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (36 minutes after post)

kemmy wrote:

NisaANYgirl wrote:
What do lies and deceit smell like? o.O

Thats what I was wondering. Wouldnt that be helpful to be able to smell it!

Yep, especially in the situation I’m in now. Save me a lot of heartache.

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kemmy offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

NisaANYgirl wrote:

kemmy wrote:
NisaANYgirl wrote:
What do lies and deceit smell like? o.O

Thats what I was wondering. Wouldnt that be helpful to be able to smell it!

Yep, especially in the situation I’m in now. Save me a lot of heartache.

Yea, Ive been in one of those situations. They suck.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (39 minutes after post)

kemmy wrote:

NisaANYgirl wrote:
kemmy wrote:
NisaANYgirl wrote:
What do lies and deceit smell like? o.O

Thats what I was wondering. Wouldnt that be helpful to be able to smell it!

Yep, especially in the situation I’m in now. Save me a lot of heartache.

Yea, Ive been in one of those situations. They suck.

Lol, hallelujah. Still wonder what it smells like o.O… =)

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laurenbeast offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 hours, 37 minutes after post)

hmmm…
i smell weird things too.
it’s not just you.
sadness and fear have their own smells.
so do happiness and pride.
but i wouldn’t trust him.
you obviously know him well…
so be careful.
maybe you shouldn’t date him anymore

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Hereford, F7, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 hours, 19 minutes after post)

It just smells like lies and deciet
If you smell youll know
I cant explain it in words…

laurenbeast wrote:
hmmm…
i smell weird things too.
it’s not just you.
sadness and fear have their own smells.
so do happiness and pride.
but i wouldn’t trust him.
you obviously know him well…
so be careful.
maybe you shouldn’t date him anymore

I cant just “Not date him”
Were engaged and its our 2 year aniversary in november XD
This morning I had a flashback of a time we were drunk together and his friend said something about him going up there and drinking and I remember asking him if it was true and him not giving me an answer
Maybe it was that

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Xclusive1_4u_2nv offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Hicksville, NY, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 hours, 35 minutes after post)

what would he be liying to you about

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Hereford, F7, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Xclusive1_4u_2nv wrote:
what would he be liying to you about

Dunno
Could be the drunk thing
Apart from that
I dunno
I know it sounds odd but I hope he is then Id defo have like a 6th sense

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