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My step dad and mother are so irresponsible

They are losers they never listen to anything I say I more responsible than any of them they don’t know anything about managing money and can never keep the house clean

They are there spending so much money on going to SeaWorld or buying useless stuff(well renting it) while they should be paying off they’re loan .they don’t have any money saved up for emergency and sometimes then they cant pay the bills and then they come to be and borrow like so much money(I have a lot of money saved from babysitting, birthdays, cutting grass and Christmas)they owe me like 200 dollars its been about a month and they still haven’t paid It

I’m so sick of lending them money but my siblings will suffer if I don’t(despite my selfishness they still having meaning to me so I will not let them suffer )

I hate my mother and step dad everyday I get even more stressed and further and further from living my dreams(which is basically to build wealth live that type of life you know)

I become kind of violent I have so much angry inside me I take it on myself and then I’m not doing well in school anymore because im stressed and angry all the time

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

This is probably not what you want to hear, but at least you have a mom. Even an irresponsible one. I’d take that.

Have you tried talking to them at all about how you feel?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 13 minutes after post)

My mom is exactly like that. She right now has no documents, around 4k in the bank (in my account) and every week goes to the hair salon to WASH HER FKNG HAIR and ends up spending around 200 bucks on that. Not to mention cell calls (almost 1k), and a trillon other things.
And instead of looking for a job or anything, she goes on finding a **** band to rehearse with. Don’t get me wrong, I really want her to do that too, but EVERYBODY knows its not a 100% guaranteed thing to do, and some extra income, other than my 700 bucks a month, could come handy. At least she got married with a resp guy, but I think he’s getting annoyed with her already.
And yeah, I love her and would never let her go for anything(and the same goes to her, I know it), but wtf is the matter with them? Wy can’t they see the stress they bring upon the ones they should raise? How can one be so inconsequencial? (Sorry Narcissus, you triggered me =\)

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1 year, 1 month ago (8 hours, 30 minutes after post)

how old are you

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day after post)

15

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