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Dear anyone,

I know I have some serious emotional problems. I’ve tried a few times to ask for help from my mother but each time has been unsuccessful because she gets angry and makes me feel bad. She makes it seem like I’m doing something wrong for wondering if something is wrong with me. I need a way to help myself and forgive my mother.

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

For one thing she is your mom and you should be able to talk with her about anything.

Alright, it’s true some parents don’t understand what their children are dealing with, but that dosen’t mean that they don’t care. They just see their children as “too young to have problems” you know how they can be.

The thing to do is to just plot out carefully and explain it as clear as you can, of what your dealing with. This dosen’t always work but just make a deeper effort to communicate, just remember that this is actually a common problem with parents and children today.

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ECK.HU.son offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

Look at the answer that i have made to this subject tonight.
“i remember wishing that i wouldn’t wake up”

Bye Eck.hu.son

Do that exercise and you will get change in your emotional balance, it take discipline and time, but it work for many people before and it is still working.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

Your Mother may just be afraid that something is wrong with you and not facing the issue like she should. You can go to the school counselor to talk to them first if it is easier. They will take you seriously and try to help you in any way then can. Then, you have someone to help you figure out how to approach your Mother.

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MF_Dancer offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

o man, my dad does the same exact thing about making me feel bad for feeling bad…so it gets worse..
i hate it

but its also called tough love.

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Theresa offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 hours, 52 minutes after post)

You’re not alone. A lot of people experience emotional instability. I know I do from time to time. My mom is extremely hard to communicate with as well. I know you love her but maybe you can find a better source for communication. We all need a release from time to time. Our energies are VERY powerful. Too many emotions at one time and POW and explosion! Lol. What ways can you release your energy in a positive way?

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