god help: my girlfriend has killed her self I don’t no what to do - Help.com

Stop for a moment and think what if it was you who had passed on and she who still lived. Would you want her to die too? Of course not, you love her and would want her to live and find as much happiness in life as she could.

What has happened to you and what happened to her was tragic, but I can assure you that she would want you to live, that she would want you to find what joy in your life that you can.

What happened is not your fault, you didn’t set the events into motion.

It’s clear that if there was a way to help her, that you would have helped her. If she called you, it means she loves you and knows that you would help her if you could. But you couldn’t have known what she was going to do. When a person make the choice that she did, there wasn’t anything you could have done to have prevented it.

Obviously you loved her, and by that, you did the best thing that anyone could have done for her. Honor her memory by living. Don’t pass the pain you feel now on to those who love you.

Ok thank you about 4 hours befor that she was fine were fine chafing etc she said she loved me I told that I love to no matter what I had no idea what she was going to do :( I allways call her an angel becus she was to me. Got a text saying love u allways and that will see u in heven and that I was right I am going to be an angel love you bye x . It just hurts so much

It’s alright that it hurts, it’s supposed to. But now, especially now make sure that your decisions are made out of love not out of pain. Make your decisions out of the love you shared with her, and out of the love you share with those who are still here with you.

I won’t say that the pain will disappear, but I will say that the love in your heart will grow bigger than the pain one day, and not so far off as you might think. Cherish what you had, and live your life knowing that we all pass one day, but that it is for us that remain here to continue on, to live and to love.

Thank you. You have helped a lot thank you again

i’m sorry to hear that happened. just to let you know, it’s NOT your fualt and you are NOT stupid, as the the dumb @$$ above would tell you, in fact that was very inconsiderate to say anything of that nature.

Well, anywayz,I know you must have loved her alot, and you fealt that you’ve could have done something about it.
NO one knows wether anything could be done about it or not,
The way i see it is that you COULDN’T have done anything about it, once someone makes that decision than there really isn’t anything that ANYONE could really do.