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Play back- let him know you are actually cool with it.

Firstly, he said it so he should feel a little bad!
But you’re right…he shouldnt feel too bad
so to make him feel better show your not angry at him…
do something nice for him like send him a cute text, run him a bath, cook him supper, offer him a massage no strings attached.
He will see you’re not mad and forgive himself.

send him a cute txt now…

Time! You’ve told him your feelings and that everything is cool right? Well, doing anything out of the normal now is going to stir the feelings out of him or make him suspicious. If you just press on with your normal ways, enough new feelings and memories should pale that little incident. No need to make a big deal of it if it isn’t.

You worry too much! If you give too much importance to this, he will actually find out a way to manipulate your feelings and make you feel bad again when he wants to.
From a guy’s point of view, if I saw my girl feeling like that, I would just try to push those buttons to manipulate her psychologically and make her do what I want her to do. I’m not saying I would, but there are guys who actually would use that against you. Let it go and just forget it. If you keep on telling him you’re not mad, you’re going to annoy him and then the tables will turn where you will be asking him to forgive you! Let it go!

Perhaps, but now look at how you are reacting. You are not terribly offended; he is overreacting; and now you may be overreacting. Annoying is one thing i.e. a mosquito that has it out for your ankles and being frustrated or upset are quite a few leagues deeper. Maybe just thinking about how you really feel about the situation is all that is necessary (that may even be a little much since you seem pretty set and you have had nearly a week of thinking already). He is overreacting.

just wait a while until he calms down, then try to get close to him… I really get unreachable when I’m angry with my girlfriend, even if I know there’s no reason to be, or she’s doing her best to calm me down - loosen me… so don’t completely withdraw your attention but, try to approach him after a while.. (10 min - 2 h , depending on the situation.)

He feels like he has to satisfy you, that’s the only reason why he feels bad, and that he didn’t do a good enough job for you.

I think the only reason he is upset because he climaxed before you is because like Harley said, he wants to satisfy you. He wants to know that he us capable of making you feel good. I know I would be worried if my girl did not climax before me or with me at least. Girl, enjoy it while you can. There will come a time, if you are with him long enough, when he will only think about satisfying himself and then you will know he does not care about you!

exactly. :D

Just make sure you let him know that he can satisfy you.

Listen, the best thing to do is communicate. Tell him what makes you feel good, what you like done to you, and where he has to touch you! I know that if my girl told me how I could make her feel good, I would be a lot happier and would make our relationship easier. Instead, sometimes when she and I make love, I’m all over trying to explore her body thinking that what I do makes her feel good without even knowing if she likes me doing what I do to her. I would just rather know.