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i feel crappy…

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i have social anxiety , ugly (and not the gorgeous girl saying she’s ugly) and just overall a mess. Cant make anyone happy and i’m not happy. Any point in living?

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Vilén offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

Yup. In the end, the socially inept win. It never fails.

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

Try something else to make yourself happy. Don’t just spend all your time on one thing.

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Sigurrós offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 hours, 15 minutes after post)

You’re a mess,if you say so. Fact is, you’re keeping me busy - that makes me happy because it’s another moment I’m not having negative thoughts - I’m trying to think of a better reply that isn’t about me, me, me.

With your social anxiety, take small steps to overcome your fears. Can you think of one thing you are grateful for?

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Bluefire offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 hours, 33 minutes after post)

well first you got to make yourself happy and if the people you are around are not happy then they are not the right people you should be hanging out with you need positive people in your life and better yourself and make yourself happy

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Just try to work on your problems and measure your progress. Maybe make a list of all the things that bug you and allocate three months to make progress on each thing on the list. Then you will have overall progress and can decide what to do next.

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Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.
Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 hours, 58 minutes after post)

I did that and it took a year but after that I felt better.

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Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.
neku offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 5 hours after post)

Worrying is a bad habit, you need to overcome it like any other bad habit. Try to modify the factors under your control, that is the only thing you can do. From http://mshn.org/worry.html

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rabha.an offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

Hey babes…. why not try something you really hate and that will keep you buzy for a while… cause you’ll keep on tryin’…. for instance try doing Maths…. which you never really cracked but cracked you instead..hehe…. it will make you put your brains into something stimulatin… then while you crib about how awful you are at doing that… you’ll instinctively spell out wat you’re good at… and then you know what makes you happy and since you aint botherin others … you’ll feel happy!… sometimes life sucks bigtime.. but god has a message there… if nothing else works go for extreme sports… if you’re broke go for social work…. you’ll help others by listenin to their troubles… and while you listen to them you’ll realise they can help themselves someway.. but they keep resenting your ideas…. then you’ll realise you can help your self out that slumber as well… but you keep on fighting the solutions outta your misery… hope you got atleast one of the solutions!!!!… they are absurd but can help… fact is if you’re asking for help, then you really wanna help your self out of it.. so just go for it!!!! All the best!

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hilaryrock offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months after post)

nah

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