Family help: 18 months ago got back with partner after she had an affair with next door neighbor cause we have 3 young children. - Help.com

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well for one.. she needs to get fixed or you do one…

if you cant afford to live with what you have.. then no more children should be brought into this situation..

for another.. if she is bleeding you dry.. then maybe she needs to get a job and help with the bills and such..

My first question would be , you know the baby is yours yes ?

I know its 18 months, but funnier things have happened, your sure the affair is over and done ?

Im looking at the feathering the nest thing here, if the affair was still ongoing and she came up pregnant, you may be an easy scapegoat.

I say this only because Ive seen a similar instance with another woman, just tread carefully that’s my only advice hon.

What a mess. You’re essentially married to a pregnant prostitute. It doesn’t get much worse than this. Look deep inside your soul and decide what you want. If you find any forgiveness in your heart, take her back, otherwise boot her sorry butt out.