Love help: Do i have to tell my parents that i am bisexual an din love with a girl.

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Do i have to tell my parents that i am bisexual an din love with a girl.

I have been open to all my friends for nearly 2 years now and they think i should tell my parents.

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lucif 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

Well, unless you don’t involve your parents really into your life at all, and make sure your life is entirely hidden by now. they probably already know, for about a year I guess… But tell them anyway, they are probably just waiting for you to tell.

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the.sophenator 2 #
Sydney, 02, AU | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

I think you should let your parents know. They will be able to support you better if they know that you are ready to be open with them.

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wha7eva 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

i think you could make a strong justification for just about any way you decide to handle it. the details of your own emotions are yours alone. if you want to tell your parents about it, thats great. honesty is healthier.

but not if you’re not comfortable with it. privacy is something you cant get back once you give it away.

nufcbabe-4-lif 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

I am happy with my sexuality but, i dunno how my parents would take it
i mean i am there oldest child so am the first to do anything.

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the.sophenator 2 #
Sydney, 02, AU | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

Do you have any idea as to how they might react?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

well, i dont talk to my parents about anything, so i dont really know. the thing that put me off telling them was when my friend told her mum that she was bi and her mum hit the roof, and grounded her and i dont want my mum to react like that.

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the.sophenator 2 #
Sydney, 02, AU | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

Yeah, I know why you wouldn’t feel comfortable then. :) I wouldn’t want my mum to act like that either.
I reckon you should just give it a try.
They’re your parents. They should love you no matter what.
Are they generally understanding and supportive when you tell them stuff?

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kllee14sd #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

im bi i dont like talking about it either but when i did my mom understood and we have not talked about

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nufcbabe-4-lif 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (33 minutes after post)

the.sophenator wrote:
Yeah, I know why you wouldn’t feel comfortable then. :) I wouldn’t want my mum to act like that either. I reckon you should just give it a try.They’re your parents. They should love you no matter what.Are they generally understanding and supportive when you tell them stuff?

i dunno i really havnt told her much about my life and i am only 16

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

kllee14sd wrote:
im bi i dont like talking about it either but when i did my mom understood and we have not talked about

i think my mum wud keep going on bout it, like at the minute she keeps going on about me finding a nice boy to b with

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nufcbabe-4-lif 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

she would tell everyone in family and her friends etc.

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kllee14sd #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

thats what my mom did did 2 me im 14 and it helped her cause she knows i may not get pregnant

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (40 minutes after post)

yeah that true.
if you dont micd me asking where are you from and were you with anybody when you told her??

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kllee14sd #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (41 minutes after post)

usa what u mean with any 1?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

kk
like did you have a girlfriend at the time when you told her

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kllee14sd #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (44 minutes after post)

yea she was there when i told her it helped alot

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

kool, i think that wouuld be alot easier.

see my mum thinks me and my girlfriend are just really close mates coz we have been best mates for ages.

so i do think it would be easier.

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kllee14sd #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (47 minutes after post)

yea same her

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kllee14sd #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (50 minutes after post)

i no u r scared but it feels good to get it off ur chested

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

how old were u wen u told her?

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