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I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and I do flirt with him all the time.
I think he knows that I like him. And I don’t know what to do cause he’s always flirting back or starting it. (please both girls and guys respond)
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That’s difficult because it’s not fair on his girlfriend, but also if you like him it’s not fair on you. I think if he knows that you like him it’s mean of him to flirt with you and lead you on
a guy with a girlfriend is a no go area. if he would cheat on her to be with you, then he’d do the same to you. if he’s willing to lie to one girl what makes you think he wont lie to another? sometimes its fun to flirt, but that should be wher it ends when someone is in a relationship.
just sit and wait. Then you can get him when they break up.
he sounds like a twit. how could u want to go out with someone like that?
what do you mean someone like that?
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if he has a girlfriend but he flirts with you he must not be good i was in a similar relationship (there was no boy)and it didn’t work out, she kept flirting with everyone. Its in there nature to do that and thats they way some people are. DOn’t bother with him he probly a loser.
well he already is a loser but he’s fun to hang out with. i’ve never met his girlfriend she goes to a different school. so what exactly do you think I should do?
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what do you mean someone like that?
cos like ‘katemonsoon’ and ‘whyisitalwaysme’, if u went out with him he’d just do the same to you. but if u want to go out or be with someone who constantly flirts with other girls (including behind ur back) then he’s ur pick.
i have the same thing but im like his best women friend and even help him get a girl he likes when the girl likes him too.since we always hangout and stuff people say we like each other…i do but does he?
at times things like that work out-things have gone on differently then I expected with my situation:)
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i’m in this position right now! and i really don’t know what to do. he flirts with me like mad!!! and i sometimes flirt back (cuz obviously i really like him) but.. he has a girlfriend and i don’t want to split them up or anything but i just wish that he would dump her. i know he really likes me back cuz he told me that he does when he was single a few months ago when he split up with his gf (but then they got back together and are still going out now)
i think i’m just gunna tell him how I feel and ask him do you ever think someday we could like.. go out? (when your single)
best of luck. x
So why didn’t he start something with you rather than go back to her. It sound like he just not that into you..u should start letting go and see how he feels and reacts when your not around anymore.
omg i really like someone right now but he has a girlffire. i think he kinda likes me but i also think he doesn’t /3
Well girl you need to win this guy, Make friends with his girlfrien and tell her he is a loser at school and stuff
PLAY DIRTY!!! you go girl kick this girl of the stage its your turn girl!
omg this guy i know said he thinks im beautiful and then says he has a girlfriend
what the heck right?
This is happen to me at the moment the thing i’ve try to do right now is give him back to her and move on with you life, i know is hard but at least you try but it would take time but if you try not to bother with him much and treat him like your friend everything should be alright never take him if he already have a girlfriend because one day he will do it back to you and you wont be happy and if his girlfriend find out about you 2 she would be unhappy about it and thats might make their relationship to the end and thats not good if she dont want him then why should you if he is good enough she wouldnt have dumped him and thats not good a guy they dont deserve a good girl!!!
Thats is just like me. I think he does like you, but he’s afraid to show it, becuase of his girlfriend. If he looks at you and he catches and looks away or asks you to be his partner or pretends to be your best friend then he does like you, explain to him how you feel, and then maybe he’ll say i like you to. But give it a go girl :D
hey, i know what your going through… am going through the exact same thing. whats worse for me though is that i think his girlfriend knows that we flirt with each other sometime if you would call it that. i mean before he would jus touch me out and not in a bad way. he would grab my had when we would pass each other in the hall, one time he jus grabbed my stomach out of no where in a really protective way. he use to also walk me to my next class after the one we shared. but like i said i think hes girlfriend nows cause now shes always with him before and after class. i guess the best thing for you to do is what my friends told me, to move on because hes not worth it if he can’t decide between you and his girlfriend…. i hope this help, i know this may be hard but jus try you deserve someone better =)
i have this same problem a boy in my school he has a girlfriend and she’s in my class but i really love the boy.What do I do?
i know where your coming from.Im dealing with the same problem now and he just told me four days ago how he felt about me its a hard thing to do. I think you should just let him pick and if he doesn’t brake up with her in a week or two then he might not want to destroy something that could of been good.
The same thing is happeneing go me right now and it reaaaly sucks. I’m 13 and the guy I’m like in love with is a grade older. His girlfriend hurt him a month ago and they broke up and I k ew he liked me and I was so happy but then they went out again. It’s lime they are attached but he’s just so confused. I’ve asked everyone and they all say if he can’t decide then he thinks it’s fun to have like two girlfriends. I try so hard totell him I’m done but it’s hard. I finally realized everyone was right and I told him…now I’m waiting and holding that he will realize he wants me. Now I’m scared that he will xo the same thing he did to me to another girl if we might go out
it’s not fair i am in the same persistion just listen to your heart and do what you tthink is right:-).
okay..so at the beginig of the year i met this boy in one of my classes..we became best friends. he would flirt with me and i’d of course flirt back..but i didnt think he liked me cause he had a girl friend and still does…but we started talkin alot more in the past 2 months and last month he started tellin me he loves me..he keeps on tellin me he is goin to break up with his girlfrind but never does..it kills me to see them together in the hallways at school..i realy dont want to be a bad person and break them up but i realy love him..
what do i do?
Im in the same situation but a bit different, i went out withprob my best lad mate, and we ended but are still really good but he has a new girlfriend and is really happy, but i have now stop feelings for him since december, and i can’t help flirting i always hug him, touch his arm and everything but…. i don’t want him to end it with his girlfriend for me, even though i don’t really know his girlfriend i dont want him to end it for me, because i know she will be in a mess, so i just have to sit out and wait :\
I like this guy so much but I found out he have a live in partner. He flirts with me on phone but then suddenly say he does not like me. What can I do? Everything i tried to win him. Im crazy about him. I cant get him out of my head. I wanted to talk to him and hope we could still remain friends but I will know my limitations already. What do you suggest. I cannot easily forget him. It will take time. I still want to be friends with him but slowly try to keep distance.
look you are just going to have to leave him alone it will kill you more if you just remain friends come on this guy u really like and crazy about and you cant get him out of your head it would hurt me alot then it would take long to get over him if i was just his friend their are so many guys that you will find out that has the same thang that this guy that has a effct on you . be smart use the mine god gave u life is hard enought why suffermove on and you will be happy in life a that mr. right will come along known one is mint to be along in life it just happen because they wont thang are they rush thangs and then it hard to trust love,be open be true to your self and to known how to find the one for you .
god i like him somuch he always asks me to go with him anywher do you think he likes me but dang he has a girlfriend
oh my god, ok, Theres this guy who was single for so long, and i had the hots for him, but he didnt know, and he actually had the hots for me, then this girl started flirting with him all the time and told him she liked him and then they started going out, its a year later and he is now my best friend who i still really like, and he has said to me like a month ago, “i love her but besides her the only other girl i could ever see myself with would be you”, i feel so terrible because his girlfriend is a nice person, i also got drunk at a party one night and we kissed when they just started going out, we flirt all the time, have hugs longer than he and his girlfriend do, i miss him when he’s not around, we have little fights and make up like 5 minutes later because we miss each other, i really like him alot, and people say to me things like “he loves you, but she’s holding him down right now” and stuff like that, all my friends are cheering me on to tell him that he needs to decide between me or her, but if he chose her id miss him so much.
If he already has a girlfriend then he may only want to be your friend. Don’t push it because if you had a man you wouldn’t want some woman in his face. chill out because what goes around comes around.
well this guy i really like him and he knows it because somone told him and now he kinda flirts with me and my two closest friends which one is his ex ask me sometimes if im dating him and i hav to aways say no couse we are not but one of my close friends asked me yesterday i said no and today i asked her why she said because she sees me lookin at him and then when im not lookin he looks at me all the time with this look in his eyes she said it was a loving look like he wants to be with me but he wont admit it help me xxxxxxx
this guy that i like has a gf and they r both my friends but the guy allways smiles and makes me laugh without talking to me and i want to go out eith him what do i do about it?
i like this boy who is a grade older than me and he has a girlfriend] yesterday he came to my locker and started hugging and flirting with me. I know him for about 3 years and his girlfriend is new to our school. I dont know if he likes me or not but he alwyas stares at me and than when i accidently look at him he turns around… i realllly want him to break up with her but dont know if he actually likes or even loves me?
The same thing has been going on with me. I really like this guy and so we are ALWAYS flirting with each other. Everyone thinks we like each other but i never say i do because what if he doesn’t like me? I always get nervous. When he flirts with me we are always punching each other playfully and he always grabs my hands and it takes him a while to let go. Then today I said i want to go home and he said I want to see my girlfriend and I said you don’t have one, and he said yeah I do. I am totally jealous but I really don’t want him to know but I really want to go out with him.
the same thing is happening with me, i really like this boy but hes got a girlfriend always flirting texting me and asking me stuff but then i always remember shes got a gf he says there not close its like there just mates but :/ im not sure if hes just saying that!
im thinking im just going to give it time not text him for a couple days but its actually hard!!
wow.in the same situation.i know that im replying after 5 years..hehe..but i hope you can gimme some advice…yourself..thanks.♥ oh xcept the girl goes to the same school as me…grr…meow.
FUCKKK ! ugh mine is UGH ! he slaps my *** and grabs my thighs and texts me 24/7 and has a freaking gf that PISSES ME OFF !
i am going thorgh the same thing right now!!! I just can’t stop thinking about him!!!
A man is going to be a man. Therefore hes gonna flirt…. cheat… ect…. and if it was the other way around and u was the girlfriend… I bet the other chick would do it to u… with that being said… life is too short so live ya life to the fullest and do all that u want to do! Even if that is taking ppl men:)
If you are a girl who likes a guy with a girlfriend it means that you a stupid little **** who will be miserable for the rest of her life. You should buy a vibrator and go **** yourself!!!
Same situation here! I really like this boy in my class but he already has a girlfriend …but hes always flirting with me, he even asked me out , I obviously said no because he has a girlfriend. Hes always grabbing my hand and it takes him a while to let go he says I love you all the time too! But at the same time hes always with his stupid girlfriend…his friends dont like me I dont know why?! And sometimes I feel like he likes me but he doesnt want to go out with me because of what his friends are gonna say …theyre always calling me a b…. For no reason but hes always nice to me….i really need help?! :/
Im goning thhrough the same problem and i dont know what to do….We flirt alot when his gf isnt aroung abd she really hates me because he hangs out with me more than her, and when i go to car holding we flirt ALOT and i dont know what to do…and he really doesnt like his gf and i say that because when he is around her he keeps his distance. I need some advice on what to do plese help
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