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what do i do ?

okay i think i screwed up with this guy i like
“someone” told him i like him and now he is acting all weird around me. Before, we were talking all cool and flirt alot but when “someone” told him, which was on a monday, four days later he started acting all weird and just , well , quiet, and i tried talking to him but all he does is say ” i dont know”.I really want to know what the hell is goin on in his mind cuz this is just too weird. Either he is shy or doesnt like me that way or What. The only time he said a word near me was when this douche bag couldnt stop annoying me and well he told the douche to back off and leave me alone. i really need someones help or opinion on this guy and help on what do i do next

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anonymous5678 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

well he stood up for you - thats a good sign :)

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RENTfan4LIFE offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

yes standing up for you is a good sign that means that you didn’t scare him away he still wants to either be friends with you or more… now to find out if he wants to be more than friends will be tough
do u no any of his friends?

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Lenny offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (33 minutes after post)

yea the one that told him was his friend

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RENTfan4LIFE offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

hmmmm….well maybe the reason y he told him was because he knew that he liked you
but since hes been acting weird lately maybe he is just confused about trying not to screw things up either if this is his first time maybe being in a relationship or if he has screwed up before in other relationships.
do u get wht i am saying?
or am i making no sense?

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Lenny offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (36 minutes after post)

i get it lol thsnks it really helped alot

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RENTfan4LIFE offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (36 minutes after post)

give him time to think about all of this i mean if someone said that to you would you just go out with him right away or would you think about it?

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RENTfan4LIFE offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

yw im glad i could help out

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Lenny offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

thats true

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RENTfan4LIFE offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (38 minutes after post)

ok just give it time to sink in with him i mean it takes longer for guys to process things because they all have dumb moments at times =P

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