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I need help handling my frustration.

There is this amazing guy that i was seeing for about 9 months on and off and in the end he ended up lying to me that he didnt have a girlfriend, when he actually did have a girlfriend the same time he was seeing me, he then blamed me for her finding out and acted like a coward. Even after this horrible thing he did i just still cant forget about him , and this was 4 months ago. He didnt explain himself at all the last time we spoke, and he didnt tell me how he felt, even after i told him that i really liked him. He just said that he didnt know if he liked his girlfriend, or if he liked me. I cant stop thinking about him, and i still want him, but i know that i shouldn’t. What would you do?

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berta offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

do you really want to be the next girl he cheats on

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Laina1312 offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Ever see that Carrie Underwood video, “Before He Cheats”? Or Miranda Lambert’s “Kerosene”?

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seas light offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (24 minutes after post)

I’d be looking for someone more deserving of you. Not being honest up front is never a good sign. Be glad you found out soner then later. He’s loss someone else’s gain. Give yourself time to forget, and be more careful in the future. You’ll find that special one when you least expect it. He will find you :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Ooh, Reba’s duet with Linda Davis, “Does He Love You?” Another video in the same sort of mindframe.

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