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My Love

So, her name is Tara and she lives in Ohio. I, however, live in North Dakota which is roughly 900 miles away. Tara lost one of her closest friends last week. She has been practically cutting her wrists ever single day since then to cope with the pain. Well, this morning, she was found in her bathroom unconscience, because she happened to cut too deep. She was rushed to the hospital and thankfully she will make a full recovery. I love her so much, that I can’t even type this without crying. I live so far away now and I can’t do anything to stop her.

I know she is safe now, but what do I do when she is released from the hospital?
I want to drop everything and jump on a plane and be there for her.

Please, what do I do to save her life?
I just can’t live mine without her.

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____________________ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

If you can’t get on a plane and go see her, let her know that you’re there for her in every other way. Talk to her.

Or, send her here, maybe? A lot of people come here seeking help, and, if nothing else, get a chance to get out the stuff that’s bothering them.

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PassionateMusic offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Fargo, ND, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

i talk to that girl non stop

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PassionateMusic offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Fargo, ND, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

We have been trying to talk to her, but she just doesn’t want to accept it. She really wants to leave this world regardless of what we say to her. She just wants to lie down and give up. I mean, her friend was the only person THERE that she could go to and escape from home with and now he’s gone. I need to be there to replace that emptiness in her life, but I just can’t be yet. I’m planning a trip, but now I have to save and work more just so that I can get there faster than planned. When I’m this far away, I feel so useless.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

Send her roses for your love, a letter with hopes for a speedy recovery, and a open invitation for her to come see you when she’s up to it.Also request that you’d love to see her. She may want to be alone for awhile, but eventually she will come around. All your offers of support won’t go unnoticed I’m sure.Text, email or whatever to remain in contact..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

I’m so sorry to hear her troubles, but happy she’s getting help she needs. Web cams are great for keeping in touch. If you don’t mind me asking how old are you and she?

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