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help, im going to suicide, i have many problems…
help me im desperate
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dont commit suicide!! if you do youll waste your whole life ahead of you! think of all the things you would be missing out on, bad life or not… eventually it will all work out in the future wether you believe it will or not
all here is right no reason to commit suicide just for thinking life is at it’s worst state…and we are all here to listen..try to help you…just say what is your problem that is effecting you the most
im desperate, im sick, i have asthma and think i will never cured=
in any ways, im tired drinking pills, im tired being a trouble=
for my parents and people around me.. im tired wasting money for=
my sickness.
my work is a failure too, ive done a lot of mistakes lately
and pissed off my friends for doing so..
and most of all, my boyfriend hates me.. he wants so badly to get=
lost from me. and somehow me too but cant never do it, i wonder=
why… he never respects me, when im mad or cry in front of him,=
he will make jokes on me.. and after we had huge fight last=
night, this suicidal feeling is getting worse, though im still=
in doubt.. i feel very weak, i wanted to call a friend, but i=
know my friend is tired hearing me and my same problems, i want=
my parents so bad, but i know i will only make them worry.. i=
feel very much alone.. pleeeaase i really need help, im in=
pain….
i have astma too…i deal with it and now it’s almost gone
i undestand that it can be a pain in the butt to get pills for yourself to make you better…and your never a trouble for your parents..they are more supportive then you think trust me i know…i’ve done so many bad things in life but yet they stay behind me even tho i dont deserve it.. and your only making misstakes when your thinkin about your problems..leave those problems at home if your boy friend is not beein a support for you at all you should break up with him..he’s not meant to be just a boy friend to you but also a friend and not a good one for not wanting to help you or respect you…you cant depend on your friends all the time try talking with your parents…and try talking about something else besides the problems you have when you talk with your friend..but after all the one who can help the most is your parents your boyfriend dosent seem to want to help you so dont count on him anymore leave him and talk with your parents..have fun with them talk with them..and you will see life seems alot brighter if you do
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how do you cope with your asthma? its killing me
Get rid of the dust in your room, for one. Wash all bedding, including quilts or bedspreads. Dust ceiling fan blades and bedsteads and nightstands and lamps. Keep your room, its furnishings and your clothes as dust-free as possible. Asthma can also have an emotional trigger. By the way, you’re not “wasting money” for your sickness. You’re a human being, and you DESERVE to be cared for. OK? Try to “chill out.” Your boyfriend is just a b-o-y and he cannot fathom real problems yet, much less be of much emotional support to you. People fail and fail again before they are successful. Nobody is expecting you to win a Nobel prize at your age! Hey, you’re a GOOD person and you are worrying about things TOO MUCH! I know that right now everything seems to be of monumental importance, even the smallest of things. But everything’s going to be OK . . . just relax and think about what you want to DO, and come up with some plans. You’re going to be OK . . . just relax and take it easy!
your welcome Letnydazd….how i cope with my astma is well everytime i’m getting problems breathing i focus only on my breathing…i sit still or lay in my bed…thinking this is nothing…i just need to calm my breathing…after 1-3 min it’s all good but i dont go all wild after that like jumping all over the place…but it will make you feel better after you taken control of your breathing…and i do some training also..train my body..running always helps since you get out of breather and you just need to focus your breathing to calm yourself down and then i just keep going..it helps alot..my astma is gone but bad thing is that ones i stop training my body gets weaker and can get my astma back witch it’s happening right now
how do you do your training? ive tried a few small excercises, but everytime i exercised, my asthma came back
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And for those who have helped me with your opinion and good advice…
Thank you soo much it means the world!
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