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there’s this guy that i like a lot.

he’s in my art class. he’s pretty quiet, but not introverted at all. just…thoughtful, i suppose. he sits with his 4 friends, and i sit with my 4 friends, so it’s sometimes weird to talk to him, cuz of everyone watching. i do catch him staring at me a lot tho. i don’t really know how to flirt with him because he’s quiet, and i don’t want to be awkward in front of our friends. whenever i compliment him, he just looks at his feet and mumbles stuff like, ‘thanks’ and ‘oh yeah.’ is he interested in me? how do i flirt with him?

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emilymagg offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

rite wot i suggest is u write him a little note and ask him to meet u somewhere so u can talk to him alone without having to worry bout his oor ur mates listenin.explain to him u like him and that you noticed him lookin at you.tell him your interested in him.first get to know him a little more and then gradually get a little mor intimate.then ask him on a date or a nite out to some where.then at the end of the nice tell him how u feel and if u still feel madly in love wiv him then tell him how you truly feel.i did that and ive been with my boyfriend now for 3 years and we are still going strong and gettin stronger every day.let me know if this is of any help

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1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

that sounds sketchy. i’ve only talked to the guy a handful of times.

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emilymagg offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

oh i thought u been likein him for a lot more dan that,well dats wot i did to get my boyfriend well apart from da note bit cuz i met mine at mum work.well all i can suggest is ask him if he wants to go to the cinema or hang out one nite and then just open up wiv how u feel.it the best fing to do.talk to hima little more before u do that though

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angiewasher offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

next time u c him lookin @ u, wink or flash your best smile.
n after class catch up to him and talk about the class that day… :)

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aficaryscarebea offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

write a note and find out. if it he was truely giving you his eye of wisdom he will let you know theres a few guys in society that are like that. try inviting him to the movies or soemthing around u get to know each other.

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gigi1261 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

um, ok…all i wanted was ideas for how to flirt with him in class…

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aficaryscarebea offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

why flirt with someone if you dont know its mutural flirting can lead to different things why flirt if u dont know much about him?

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gigi1261 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

flirting allows me to get to know him. that’s the whole point of flirting: to get to know someone, see if they’re interested, and let them subtly know you’re interested also.

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Lenny offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 41 minutes after post)

you cant tell if he is interested or not staring means that he notices you
try talking to him in a project the teacher lets the class do and everyone is busy doin their stuff thats a good tim to talk to him and everyone else wont notice… talk to him friend like then you go witht he flirt
he seems like the slow type of guy
you know what i mean

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