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theres more than life to than that man.
if he has the indecency to break up with you then not talk to you, you are better off without him

What a guy.
If he dumped you just like that, he isn’t the one for you.

I know it hurts, but being in love by yourself never works out, you need to stick it out untill a guy loves you back, and that WILL happen, just stay strong.

No relationship is worth you giving up your life for…I know it hurts, especially without warning.You can pull through this, however it will take time. Allow yourself to mourn because it really is a loss, and move on to the next best thing. No one knows why things happen as they do, but you will find happiness again. Be well, and when that opportunity comes you’ll be ready for it. Embrace the moment when it does. All the best to you :)

He probably isn’t worth it. There are so many other guys out there that would love you. It’s not worth it to die over a man.

Did you have a good relationship with him before? What happened to cause his action? It must be something that happened between the two of you.

Hey, your life is much more precious and you should not waste it for someone who didnt have any courtesy even to bid you bye.

But this is so often in love relationships. I have faced it myself.. went into bouts of depresssion but then life starts once again. Why to cry for someone who doesnt think for you..

Life is much more beautiful even if you see it alone. Your life is the biggest miracle which has happened. See how you breathe, and all machines inside your body works.

Love is an emotion which should be shared by both lovers equally. And dont worry, you will find a love soon. But till then love yourself. Be the favourite of yourself. You are the best friend of yourself.

NEVER EVER THINK OF DYING.. Its the worst thing which anybody can do. Life is beautiful, your life may be going through a very rough patch, but havent you heard, there is pitch black before the first ray of sun.

Just hang on and wait for the dawn. Sun will rise again. Till then keep breathing… and focus on it and think about the marvel called life, with which we all are blessed.

Please don’t give up now! Even if he did break up with you, think of how he’d feel if you hurt yourself. Or anyone else for that matter. Things will get better, it may just take a bit of time.

Time to find someone else. Your not going to dwell on just one man, are you?

It might be easy for some to step into new relationships but I’m not that way. He is not just some man. He is “the” man for me

so what alternative is there if he left? You can’t force him to stay ovviously.. Don’t you want someone to stay rather then go? he left for whatever reason. You need to stay strong and healthy, for yourself, as no man is worth being so out of control over.

Dear Autumngirl

If he has broken up with you , then he can not be “THE MAN” for you. If he would have been the man for you. he never ever broke that.

Dont worry.. he was not for you and thats why he has gone. You must be deserving better than him. Dont feel bad for this.

I will share a story which says that whatever happens… happens for good. This may not be exactly relevant for you.. still you can get some message from it.

Long time ago, in a village there was just one person who owned a Horse.All villagers were envious of him that he has such a beautiful horse. But he never ever felt proud of it. All villagers thought of him as a snooty guy. Because even if they praise the horse, the man never show gratitude.

Then one day the horse ran away. All villagers came to the house of the man and started giving him solace about the horse. But the man said “so What”? Villagers felt really angry. They try to give solace to this guy and he is saying so what…

Then one day the horse returned from the forest with two more horses. So now the man became the owner of three horses. Again all villagers came to the house of the man to congratulate him. They said that the man was intelligent that he didnt feel bad of loosing the horse then. He must have knowledge that one day the horse will come back. Now the man was not at all moved by all the congratulatory messages of the villagers and say “so what”

One day when the only son of the man was washing the horse, one horse kicked him so hard that he got his leg broke. Again all villagers came and said that man knew that these horses may brink ill fortune to his family and that why he was not very happy at the arrival of these horses. All villagers felt so sorry for the man and his son. But then he said “So what”.. All villagers thought that the man is crazy. He is without emotions.

Then the neighbour country attacked this country and the king asked all the healthy men to join army. Now all the young men of this village left their families to join army. Only this man’s son was remained as he was unfit to join army. Now all villagers got together saying that its nice, atleast his son is with him. Their sons have gone to the army and they dont even know if they would come back or not.

So this shows.. .that whatever happens.. happens for good.

Its all about situations.. We should never felt about any situation as the end.. because there is no end.. the world is never ending phenomena and we should accept it as it comes.

If you dont like this whole message then please feel to ignore. But i just shared this zen story with you to make my point clear that you may get a better man in your life.

Thank you to everyone who has shown concern. Although I realize I have come to the wrong place. I thought I was in a forum that would give me real information on how to commit suicide. I’ve done all I can do to try to find happiness again and there is none. Not therapy,nor talking to family or friends. I just don’t want to wake up again,ever…

please dont do anything stupid! theres no point! there is always something to keep you alive and healthy! please, there are so many people that care about you, many that you don’t know about!!

Anon, happiness is all around you but your eyes are closed. Don’t do anything with emotions charged up to your eyebrows. You are much more worth it than that man who just left you without any warning and doesn’t even call. He left the coward way, you are brave. He is not worth it!