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same old story!

ok i put my ex behind me but today i read my dairys and now all i wanna do is talk to him! i dont know why though i dont love him now i only think of him occsionally so why am having a really big urge to speak to him?

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WHATABIGNICKNAM offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

do you have questions to ask him

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

You are reliving the past reading about it.Learn from the past, don’t make the same mistakes and move on.It’s a big world out there with allot of amazing people to meet.Have a great day.

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stuck offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

WHATABIGNICKNAM wrote:
do you have questions to ask him

yeh i dnt fully understand hisactions and how he treated me but i dont think he will give me any answers and i dont want to look hung up on it by phoning him and askng him

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KNielsen13 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Jimmysellit is right, you are just reliving the past and that is no way to move on. Let your ex stay a memory and move on. Unless, you have major unresolved issues with him and it would make you feel better to get closure. Either way, move on Good Luck!

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WHATABIGNICKNAM offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

they will eat at you but move on time will help plus remove the diary

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stuck offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

he dumped me by text i have not spoken to him since b4 we broke up i just need some answers have since we split which was nearly 3 months ago

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Neutra offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 99 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

Sounds like you still have feelings toward him.

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stuck offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (15 hours, 15 minutes after post)

yeah i still care but i dont love him how canu love someone who has not been in a life

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cloudlessworld offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 hours, 53 minutes after post)

if you think you can talk to him without your heart getting involved then i dont see why not?! maybe your raedy to be his friend and we can never have too many of them!

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stuck offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 hours, 55 minutes after post)

yeah have done that he said would phone today its nearly 10pm i knew he wouldn’t phone

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cloudlessworld offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 hours, 58 minutes after post)

well then atleast youve tried! maybe then its time to truly forget him? hope youre ok, dont let him get you down.

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stuck offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours after post)

thats what im thinking! i just hard to admitt sometimes that you was wrong about someone i was really wrong about him

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cloudlessworld offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 3 minutes after post)

been there! sometimes you just need them to prove it to you one last time though so you can really believe it.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 6 minutes after post)

hope this is it cause im starting to get really annoyed at myself

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 10 minutes after post)

dont be, you just know what to do now. youve tried and it hasnt worked out so if you get the urge again, fight it!

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