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Why is she doing this?

I’m about 15 and I have a girlfriend that’s 15 and we’ve been together for 5 months, she moved and now lives about and hour away so I haven’t been able to see her. We still talk on the phone and will send letters to each other. We always seem to do the “I love you more” thing when ever we talk, so I thought it was going great. We’ll I’ve finally gotten to see her, after all these months, at a play at her school. I go up and hug her and she just kind of shrugs me off. I didn’t think much of it at the time. After her play though she would walk away from me and just leave me behind. She ditched me twice when we were walking around and she would just completely ignore me when one of her friends started to talk to her. She had said before that I was the most important person in her life and she just forgot about me when we met. Is this something that will pass or do I need to bring imediate attention to it?

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seas light online Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 199 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

I would for sure ask her… That way ytou will know where you stand. Doesn’t seem good to ditch her so called boyfriend however :(

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*heather* offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Maybe you should ask her if there’s something going on. She may not even realize she’s doing that, or maybe it isn’t you.

Jose Alonso offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

dump he asss

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nenelindodecor offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

ok not good she basicly dont want u no more dude so a little advise leave her before she leaves u

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Neutra offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 83 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

You two have been apart for quite awhile, and long distance relationships have a funny sort of way of failing often. You can try again, but if she has moved on there isn’t much that you can do about it. This may actually help you grow as well.

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nenelindodecor offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

yeah is never good to fall in love at a young age you might just end up getting hurt like you are know

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..Karl offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

You are way too young to fall in love. She was in love with the romance of a long distance relationship. You sustained that fantasy on the phone, but once you are in front of each other, it’s not that appealing.

Move on, meet more girls, play the field, avoid long distance relationships and don’t get a girlfriend for at least 4 to 8 more years.

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KNielsen13 offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

you two are soo young that she may just feel awkward being around you because she doesn’t see you very often… You need to ask her, if only to make yourself feel better.

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