guy help: My ex gf went out on a date last night

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My ex gf went out on a date last night

and she called me up after it and asked to see me, I said yes and when she came over she was telling me how she felt bad being out with the other guy and how he could’nt make her happy or laugh like I did. She also said she doesn’t get why she feels like this because we are broken up….well anyways before she left she told me she still loved me, this left me very confused, could anyone help me try to figure her out it seemed very random for her to do what she did.

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2Hazel 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

trying to get back with you?

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Da⌐11 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Who broke it off to begin with and why?

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Cakes;-) 26 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

It sounds like this date made her realise that she missed you. Did you break up with her or the other way round?

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hyenadan85 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Cakes;-) wrote:
It sounds like this date made her realise that she missed you. Did you break up with her or the other way round?

she def realized that she missed you after the date and she wants to get back together with you.

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Cakes;-) 26 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 7 minutes after post)

But even if she misses you it doesn’t mean the reason you split up will have disapered and this may need to be worked out still

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(v) 1 k 3 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 7 minutes after post)

She broke up with me, we were actually engaged, but we broke up because we had some issues which we have worked out, and she has been talking to me alot lately. I wold take her back in a heart beat I really hope she wants to get back together.

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Da⌐11 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 12 minutes after post)

well not to rain on your parried. But this is a common occurrence for people who walk out on their spouses, tittering back and forth from wanting to be back together and wanting not to be together.

Don’t get to discouraged if she goes back the other way.

Don’t get pushy or look desperate to take her back in a heart beat. Act as if you could take her or leave her, and wait till she makes the commitment to come back.

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(v) 1 k 3 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Well I’m not like that I let her talk to me, I could honestly stop talking to her and be fine, but I still love her very much at the same time.

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Da⌐11 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 15 minutes after post)

good

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Cakes;-) 26 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Yeah just carry on being her friend and seeing how things pan out but don’t let her take advantage of you. You will know when that is happening tho

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 31 minutes after post)

well if she’s your ex girlfriend then let her go.
But if you care for her..then you want her to be happy..
You may love her
She may love you but in a friend way and thast okay to

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(v) 1 k 3 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

She came back tgo me yesterday :) I’m so happy!!

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hyenadan85 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

why did you guys break up in the first place??????

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Cakes;-) 26 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

I’m glads your happy. Yaay good news.

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