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i lied to my parents, and said i was molested.

now im afraid to tell them the truth. what do i do? i feel terrible about it. now everyone think i was molested. i even go to therapy for it. but it never happened. i hate myself, all i wanted was attention.

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taylorfreakinkay offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (0 minutes after post)

o….em….g

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

You were rly stpid…

Now suffer the consequences…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

why the hell would you even do that?!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

for evry bad choice there are consequences. Tell ur parents they will talk i tout with you and understand they love u

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

my parents honestly dont care. thats what freaks me out most… they think i was… but they dont care!
i really hate myself.. now im even more depressed that i was before.

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moop9 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

so much for anonymous

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

moop9 wrote:
so much for anonymous

lol

Devil_on_Earth wrote:
Okay…tell them the truth! You were rude to them and you do deserve to be punished. Lying always has a consequence.

taylorfreakinkay wrote:
for evry bad choice there are consequences. Tell ur parents they will talk i tout with you and understand they love u

Most of us are saying the same…

taylorfreakinkay wrote:
for evry bad choice there are consequences. Tell ur parents they will talk i tout with you and understand they love u

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

my cousin did this once. She said her dad molested her friend. Then she said she made it up. I am not sure why she did that. I would say she was needing attention and help for other problems and it was just easier to make something up.

moop9 wrote:
my parents honestly dont care. thats what freaks me out most… they think i was… but they dont care!i really hate myself.. now im even more depressed that i was before.

I think you too are wanting attention for other problems. Why don’t you tell the truth the therapist. Talk honestly about what is really bothering you. See what they have to say about it.

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moop9 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

im afraid they’ll think im crazy, lol. which i technically am… but still

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

Okay, here’s the truth. i used to be terribly depressed. but now i couldn’t enjoy life more. and i was in terrible shape. the best thing to do is take the first step in getting your life on track. tell the truth. then reach out to your parents and explain why you told the lie.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

It really isn’t something to lie about. Think about real molestation victims, and how they would read this and wish that there’s was a lie, they had to live through that, and you didn’t. Sounds to me that you said it for attention, your an idiot, and you’ll either spend the rest of your life with people pitying you and treating you differently because you were “molested” or you get to fess up and try to be a decent person.

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

Don’t worry about what people think. And no, you are not crazy, you are just having some issues that need to be dealt with. You have a therapist. Someone who is trained to deal with things like this. Use what you have right there available to you.

What is going on with your relationship with your parents? Why do you feel you are not getting enough attention? Why do you think they didn’t care even when they thought your were molested? I mean if they got you set up with a therapist, that seems like they care.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 45 minutes after post)

You know what, don’t confess to anyone but your therapist. I think it’s for the best if you do this. You do have a problem. Once that is dealt with, in the future, you can confess if you wish. That is what i think, you have a problem and i don’t think you can deal with the backlash of this kind of lying right now.

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 hours, 56 minutes after post)

wow, as a person who really was molested from the age of 3 to 11.. i am extremely ticked off because this is not a game… molestation really happens in the world to children and for you to think this is a game.. shame on you.

why couldnt you just be upfront with your parents and tell them that you felt neglected? i am really hoping and praying that you did not throw someones name out in this because if you did, they are ruined for life.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (5 months after post)

ive been molested and i told my parents that it never happened because all i want is peace and now that i have my mom doesnt want to talk to me wat do i do?

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