Love help: I sometimes feel that I’m being paranoid when my boyfriend of a year and two months doesn’t call me when he says he will. - Help.com

If I were him, I’d probably forget…

But well, I?d look into it if I were you, not everyone is honest…

Well, I can remember chats, but when it comes down to a constant action or a thing to do…I just forget it xD

Mmmm…

From what you’ve said, I can’t rly tell…but it seems like it’s a bit of both…anyways, tell him it bothers you…

Just try and relax, he will talk to you after all you two have been together for a year ( grats by the way). but you should talk to him and tell him it bothers you when he does that. Also he may do that so he can get some attention from you, get you thinking about him

HarleyUnique wrote:
Well we broke up for 4 months because he wouldn’t call me i>or /i> answer my calls. So he is getting a little better since we got back together, but like i said, i have told him, but he just doesn’t really do much to prove that he’s sorry.

Tell him that it’ll be over for good if he doesn’t…if it bothers you so much…

Well, he doesn’t seem to care much about what you say

HarleyUnique wrote:
That’s rather hard. because i do love him a lot.

IMO, you are going to have to deal with it.

As you see, he ‘aint changing.
I guess its just a bad habit of his, unless he has other more important things to do.

Doesn’t he eventually call you?
If he says he’ll call and doesn’t call, I see it as him not keeping his word, or maybe he has other priorities, or is tired, or whatever he tells you.
I dont see you as paranoid because he already knows it bothers you, expecting him to act on what he says is the way you are.
If I say I’ll call I will call, but thats just me.
Many many people do what he does.

Have fun!

OOOOOH DON’T WORRY ABOUT THAT TRUST ME EEEEVEEERY GUY DOES THAT…just try talking to him about it. Ok but the number one thing u don’t wanna do is pressure him in any way.For the most part guys do that because (this may hurt) they wanna do something else like hang out with friends or play video games. Sometimes they don’t wanna talk to u…they get tired..and annoyed, but that’s only sometimes (most likey not the case). They get very busy and forget too (but usually that’s when their doing something they wanna do) freaking retards…guys r different than girls as u know, so they don’t always know how to treat ppl, so ur bf probably has no idea he’s hurting ur feelings..he probably thinks it’s no big deal, so just tell him how u feel, and maybe remind him, and if there’s no progress take him to the doctor and get his memory checked (I’m just kidding), then he’s being kinda cruel…not caring and all. Hope this helps.