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Iv been told I come off as snoby when people first meet me(in the real).

But I’m really not, they all say after they get to know me that im not snoby at all I’m just rather shy and dont go out of my way to say hi to someone I dont know..

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

It’s okay, I think everyone’s like that. They give off a different impression of themselves than how they really are once you get to know them.

I know I come off sorta shy and timid, but I’m really not. Spend five minutes with me and I’ll start chatting away!

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Thats where I wonder if 1st impressions do really count? I’m quite shy and often people missunderstand that for snobery. Just remember what counts is that your friends know the real you and once people take the time getting to know you they are the people that matter

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (10 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Its called being ‘aloof’.if your a Capricorn its just how you are ,Im the same, dont worry about it. the ones who give you a chance without judging are the important ones anyway.Just try to be more open and smile more when first meeting people.

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (10 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Im an Aquarious.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (10 hours, 32 minutes after post)

No matter. what i said still applies,dont worry about it, just be you and youll be fine

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