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i am 22 and just got married.

i have a low paying job and i stress everyday. i even have panic attacks and depression. i need help to get a job that will stablize me and my wife. i am too young to be this unhappy. i hope to gain help before this kills me.

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

Do you live with eather of your parents?

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steff offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 236 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

you’re so lucky

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everhart offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

ask your parents times are hard we have a son that lives in **** louis missouri,he is almost 21 we pay hes bills i am sure your parents will be glad to help good luck

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

Send you CV out to as many people as you possibly can. Even if you don’t think you are fully qualified for the job they may see something they like. Make sure your CV is completly positive and sells all your good points and a cover letter needs to sell you from the start too. Its a numbers game and the more CV’s you send the higher your chances are. They won’t all say yes but the more you send the higher your chances will be and no matter hard it is try not to fall at the first hurdle. Times are hard for the whole economy right now lets hope it stars looking up soon Try to remember the things you have to be greatful about. Starting a new life is always hard but you have to start somewhere and never give up

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

Your condition is very panic. it is better to change the job to another place where you get peace of mind or adjust with them till you get a good job. Everywhre stress is present and you have to adjust to the circumstnaces. dont be panic and dont go for depression.

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1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

you could always go in to the doctors office and tell them that your work stress you out to the point that your depressed they would probly put you on workers comp for a certin amount of time and fromthere you could ether find another job or you can go back to work at the same place after your works comp it up

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

Try to nab a job working for the gov’t. Great benefits and good pay. I just turned 18 and I work for the gov’t (everyone else there has double digits on me age wise so it cant be that bad of a job)

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steff offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 236 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

aren’t you and your wife working now?

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everhart offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 6 minutes after post)

its not me and my needing help we gave advise to the young person asking for help,we both work we support our son in **** louis missouri

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neku offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 hours, 52 minutes after post)

You can apply for freelance writing, bookkeeping, software, transcription, online tuition or customer service work at home jobs. These companies do not require any fee and pay well . List of companies(with websites) offering genuine work at home jobs is available at http://www.pcworkathome.net . Many of these companies have been in business for several years

You can go to the local Goodwill center, they will help you find a job and/or train you. You can also try your luck at online charities like Modest Needs, people may send donations, if your requirement is genuine. From http://www.laodn.org/

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wha7eva offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 hours, 9 minutes after post)

if i were in your shoes, i would get real social with all the people i know that have jobs that i would enjoy. chat them up about their work. theres no predicting what kind of info you’ll get from them, but much of it will be useful. stuff to aim for:

* what personality traits/past experiences really make someone awesome at doing that job?
* whats their company up to in the near future? new projects? will they be changing headcount any time soon?
* what hidden perks/headaches come with employment at dude’s company?

this kind of networking can seriously cut down on the amount of paperwork/resume distribution you need to do before someone makes you an offer that upgrades your quality of life

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