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Does anyone else have this problem?

I always try to stay under the radar. I do as I please, and I follow my extremely nerdy tendencies. But it seems that no matter what I do, people are always following me and/or making comments on what it is I’m doing.
For example. I oftentime go on neopets or moshimonsters at school — and now everyone has one. It’s the new cool thing. When I had a trollz account, everyone made one as well. I hate it.
But that’s not what bugs me the most.
I don’t like to be showy. I keep to myself, usually staying indoors — alone — and I never make rude comments to others. Unless it’s the usual sarcasm, which honestly does not count.
But yet it seems that no matter what I do to stay unnoticed, people always pay attention to me.
I suppose it doesn’t sound like a major problem, almost akin to a rich man complaining of too much money, but I’m dead serious. When someone strives for alone-time and invisibility, the last thing you want is the opposite.
Any ideas on what I could do?
I tried ignoring everyone last year and speaking openly about detesting people, but nothing seems to work.. >.

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chuck offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

usually when you have headphones in and listening to music, no one seems to bother you. just tell them to back off if you don’t like getting constant attention.

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rrxapture offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Yeah, you don’t need to send out negative vibes.
Unless you think that would help..
Wear all black and make sure your jewelry is extra spikey… Ha.

I kid. It’s not bad to be noticed, hun.
If you don’t want people to ‘copy’ you, don’t do it at school.
As for the other stuff, ignore it, I suppose.
There’s not much you can do.

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conundrum88 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Why do you want to be so invisible? Don’t you think being noticed is a sign of flattery? Imitation is the greatest form of appreciation (or something like that). If I were you I’d think about how bad it would be if nobody paid attention to me at all. Life would suck.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 19 minutes after post)

ok i sometimes feel the same way i want to be invisible but it doesnt work the more i try the more people come toward’s me try giving them a chance or ask ur mom to get u home school…

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