Feeling help: should i send this to a guy? - Help.com

change nothing, send it. Guys are such jerks!

Be bold!

defenitly send it.

why not, at least he’ll know who you feel :)

well seeing this from a guy’s point of view (no offense ladies) this is only my opinion. First one question. Did he like you and then later along the line did you begin to like him? if so i have been through this but i never ignored her but i think it is being a little rough. The guy will feel like **** and only make things worse
if your looking for a sorry from him this isn’t the best way

kimpos0 wrote:
change nothing, send it. Guys are such jerks!

rawr!

I know this is going to sound corny and lame but do whatever feels right. I honestly don’t think you should change anything about your letter…Otherwise it won’t be coming straight from your heart. Hope I helped..

kimpos0 wrote:
change nothing, send it. Guys are such jerks!

Commander Ikari wrote:
Be bold!

Sadly, i agree with both of these….maybe not the first, but be bold. Facts are his won’t change things between you, may make him like u less, but speak your mind, that’s all that matters, at least to me. So be bold! ;P like commander said

yes, that’s exactly what happened.
i feel like i cant get a sorry out of him any other way because he’s always ignoring me and i want him to feel like what he did/is doing is so low that he has to knock on my door and come up to me in person to apologize.

i used to like him A LITTTLE whenever he liked me, but it was kind of weird at first because we were neighbors, and most would consider me out of his league, but over the summer he got his braces off, lost 30 pounds, and has a new sense of confidence. and im so glad that his is finally confident, because i feel like that was the little part that was missing, but now apparently ‘all the girls’ think he’s cute, but i dont believe it, i miss my old, sweet neighbor that would never have his younger brother phone me and tell me that he was repulsed by the kiss on the cheek i gave him.

….Sounds confusing lol.

it’s fine that you dont like me
and it’s fine that you’re busy with football
but it’s reallllly dumb whenever you like ignore everything i say to you, i mean, when you liked me and i didn’t like you i still talked to you and i still hung out with you, but you cant even be nice enough to text me every once in a while

i realize that im probably making things worse, and maybe ruining the little chance that i might have had with you, but you’re probably with bobbi jo now anyway. you’ve become a jerk since you lost 30 pounds and got your braces off, i was more attracted to you before you told me about all these other girls, just to make me jealous. i know i sound like a b word and this probably doesn’t mean much to you, since you dont think much of me anymore.

it’s humiliating, i really like you and i can tell you’re avoiding me and it makes me look so sad and desperate and to make it worse i can tell sam was the one prank calling me and i have a feeling that you knew about it, but maybe you didn’t, whatever

you don’t have to reply because i know how annoying it is to talk to me.

FINAL DRAFT?

I like it. Guys are really starting to make me mad…a lot of them.
Make the a$$ feel guilty. You deserve better than someone like that. We all deserve someone who’s not going to ignore us or abandon us…*sigh* this relationship stuff can get so stressful…I know what you’re going through though. Sadly, I’ve been in this same situation. You’re handling it waayy better than I would. I can’t take it when the guy I like completely ignores me and acts like that. I set out to hurt them and get revenge. I know it’s not right and I try not to, but sometimes it feels good to get payback…(I probably sounded really evil right there. I’m just really upset right now). But you have my full support. Good luck.

im really scared to send it.
i mean, i know he’s a jerk, but it would keep me up all night wondering what he’s going to think about the whole thing, like, is he going to laugh in my face, is he going to yell at me, is he going to apologize, but at the same time i want him to feel just like i do now: unwanted, embarrassed, and ugly

I know what you mean. I would be scared too. Would it make you feel better to send it to him and get all your frustrations out? If so, then you should send it. No matter the outcome, you’ll feel tons better. And if he laughs in your face, then give him a nice kick in the manly parts and walk away. That’s what I would do. lol! I know, I would want him to feel the same. We just have to wait and see what happens. Emotions can be unpredictable. If you need anything, just give me a shoutout and I’ll help as much as I can. I hate it when people have to go through this kind of stuff. *hugs* It will all be fine. Good luck. =]

thank you! i decided not to send it, and if he’s the good old neighbor i remember, he will, at some point, make an apology. it felt good just to write it. im not going to bother, i can make him feel as bad as i would like him to feel, but he has to be the one to feel sorry and tell me he is. it just makes me sick how he forgot me when ever i needed him to remember me the most, you know?

I know what you mean. It feels good to write out our frustrations. It helps bunches. And yes, I know what you mean. It’s terrible how things turn ugly right when you need them to be good. It sucks majorly. lol!

umm…I know you’re anon and everything, but would you mind adding me, or going un-anon. so I can add you? perrty please. =]

sure! idk how to add people, but you can add me:)

thank you. =D lol!