friends help: i don’t want to be a burden. - Help.com

Why? Why do you think all of this?

You want to give a little context?

people have told me so, ever since i was little. i have always been that person who is dragged around out of obligation. no one ever wants to actually spend time with me, talk to me. i’m practically invisible when i do open my mouth and have a conversation. i’m that ignorable space.

i don’t really know how to really provide any context because there are so many factors… so many different things that are whirling around in my head that are all contributing to this. i guess in the end, i’m just confused and lonely.

You have to find your niche, but believe me it exists. Perhaps your trying to be someone you’re not subconsciously. The sad thing is, usually the ones that care most about us never tell us like we need them to. I’m here to talk with, if you want that. :-)

heres what i think you should do
have u tried like just talking to one of ur old friends, and seeing who they are friends with? lol i sound like a friggen guidence counsilor
and dont turn to cutting urself. its a bad path, i know from experience. have u tried talking to like a cousilor or soemthing?
ik u prolly think thats like dumb, but it does help. if u need someone to talk to, im here :]

are you ok..

to be honest, i would rather not talk. it’s almost hypocritical because my mind knows better, but i really don’t think this is worth anyone’s time.
this was just a bad idea. thanks anyways, though.

dont say that..
and it is worth my time
i dont even know you, and im already concerned.
how old are u?

Right here and now, in only moments you have two people who don’t think you’re a waste of time. :-) Don’t let people get to you.

we can help if u give us da story

i’m seventeen.
i’m trying not to get too inside of my own head right now… not to over think things too much.

Don’t cut yourself off, don’t treat yourself like nothing. If people have been telling you that they spend time or take you places out of obligation, it doesn’t mean anything about you expect you have bad friends. Free yourself from them, a live your life as someone who can see their own worth. You’re a wonderful person, because all people are wonderful.

i g2g to bed, its like 11:30 and i have skool tomorrow.

You are a member of the human race. You are a child of God. You have a valuable contribution to make. You are NOT inferior to other people. You only THINK you are inferior. And, already, you have people who care about you and want you to enthusiastically embrace being a valuable member of human society. You have nothing to fear but fear itself!

oh this is silly. goodnight.

P.S. Get some rest tonight! I’m gonna try, too!

Treat yourself like you deserve respect. Then earn the respect.

Goodnight unknown person to me. :-)

There is no reason to be imbarresed. Its okay to feel down sometimes, i mean my parents are in the next room screaming at eachother i know, but anyway, its just a part of life, sometimes LIFE JUST SUCKS!!!

i know wut ur going through, seriously.