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perhaps you are looking for ur purpose in life..But cannot find it..

tell me about it

yes

get a kid

I know, it is a ***** example. But the best way to suddenly get purpose in your life.
If you want a real difficult goal;
Try and attain enlightenment, it will make you happy too!
And it will also stop you from doing things that will make you unhappy.

i think you have had it to easy and are rather spoilt.sorry to sound harsh but im just telling you how it sounds..your parents have done everything for you and made your life so easy for you that you dont really need to motivate yourself.you need to try harder at school get your grades carry on with your hockey but try and focus on what you want to do when you leave school.get a partime job that would give you more independence,and dont rely on your parents to keep bailing you out basacilly grow up .

yep! But that’s the idea. You, have the backround to have a choice. You can see the difference. It might seem strange, but it is a good goal. And nobody, except those happy few, somewhere, can help you… it will be hard.

just stop acting like a spoilt brat you have more then most 21 year olds think your self lucky.

haha, www.xkcd.com ?

i can identify a bit with this. my mother (shes great) tries to stuff money in my pocket every chance she gets. and has worked her azz off trying to bail me out of my various f***** ups.

its definitely hard to become accountable for yourself if it really just doesn’t matter too much whether you are or arent.

i think you’ll probably never cooperate with anything unless its something that you chose. something that inspired you first, not someone else who pulls strings.

and, for what its worth, why should you?

but before you devote your life to hockey, maybe you should go on a little adventure to figure out what else you might care about. some sort of journey (roadtrip or backpacking thru europe or whatever seems good) where you start out with some money, cut all ties to parents temporarily, and see where you get on your starting capital. you’ll probably find some other things to add to the list of stuff you feel strongly about.

You have been given too much through your parents who apparently love you very much. This however has prevented you to grow, work hard, a get the self satisfaction of knowing you did and achieved things on your own. You would appreciate all that you have so much more when you’ve earned them for yourself. Start by having a more positive attitude, and stop skipping , missing tests, and getting you act together. You’ll be glad if you do. It’s never too late to change. Best of luck to you in your future :)

my life is the same

So your also depressed, and have been given alot in your life?

yeah

Have you tried seeking any help for it?

Sholin monks believe that the right state of mind is just as important as the quality of life. Sounds like you need to go to classes and work extra hard. You can’t skip classes or skip tests. Find a motivation that you have’t found before. Like your parents aren’t going to be around for ever to support you , and what about your kids, Don’t you want to teach them to get an education.
here are my reasons for going to my classes
-Mad expensive
-every class is 110$ on its own
-tests are verry important
Here’s what motivates me
- partying (these are pretty crazy) after a hard week
- biking
-My friennds at school
- finding a good job after school

Look it seems like hockey is you passion. What happens to that if you drop out GONE.
Go to classes
find a motive.
Mabey you need to go out to partys (don’t drink if you don’t want )

hey sorry to be so harsh i hope you can figure out wat to do for the best..im sure you will best of luck to you..