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go with ur heart

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If you really like him GO FOR IT.
If you don’t know, date him.
BUT PLEASE dont worry so much about what others think.

Your friends are obviously goingto affect what you do/think but be careful.Completely ignoring hwta they say is fine but you will always know what they think and they will continue to influence you throughout any relationship. BUT… it is still your decision and your firneds will stick by you and support you no matter what. If he really is that ugly and you think ou’ll always see him that way dont get yourself into a relationship with him. AS genuine and nice as he is, nice only goes so far - there has to be some form of desire or you’ll get bored and hurt him more in the long run. Would you rather just be friends with this guy — tell him that?
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if you like him and he likes you then its nobodys business but your own if you get together i would say follow your heart or else you will always regret not taking the chance. if your friends are mean to you about it then they aren’t real friends. if they are real they will support you no matter what decision you make

Hang out with him a bit… when you get to know people you stop ’seeing’ them how they look and ’see’ them the way they feel. If he remains unnattractive in your eyes, then don’t date him. If you stop thinking about him as unnattractive and start to see him as an awesome person then go for it!

Given time to get to know him, you’ll figure out for yourself whether you are interested or not. But either way… it’s your choice, not your friends.

Beauty is skin deep, and dont judge a book by its cover. Looks are not everything take him for his worth.

Ever heard the ugly swan story ? there was a boy in my school like that years ago, later in his life he lost weight, had his hair done, as he grew up he morphed into a lovely looking guy, so you can just never tell. :-)

idont get it…didnt you say he was cute?
thought cite meant sexy?

Are you attracted to him at all? If you are, then just give him some hang out time. It sounds to me like you’re really torn between him and what your friends think.

If you want to keep talking to him you should…no matter how ugly he is…your friends need to understand that you like talking to this guy…and looks really don’t matter to be honest…in the end you are going to want someone to love you for you and love everything about you…it doesnt matter if they are ugly or hot or whatever you want to call it…he is a person…and the way you talk about him seems like a really really nice person…you dont have to go out with him if you dont want to but i can see you want to at least be friends and thats cool too maybe in the future you’ll realize looks dont matter and you’ll see him for who he really is :)

hey dont go for the outside go for the inside because u never now if at the end u might like him he sound’s like a keeper dont worry what other’s think is ur life and if ur friend’s dont like them and u do then get new friend’s

Yeah, seriously. Please don’t let your friends make decisions for you…if they try to, they’re not being very true friends. You’re your own person, you make your own decisions…keep it that way.

Ugly boys deserve a little action too, besides… if you dated some regular guy, he’d forget you within 2 months of the breakup. You give the ugly-boy some excitement and you’ll be the object of fantasies for a lifetime!

Win-Win right?