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If a girl tells you that she is interested in you, thinks about you and feels drawn to you does she mean it?

I only ask because she is a slow go when it comes to actually going out. She says she is dealing with some health issue at the moment which makes her not want to be out but insists once it’s better we will go out. Every time I try to walk away because im running out of patience she tells me she wants me to stick around… For what? is this normal for girls to act this way, should I trust her?

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Forman offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

how old are you guys?

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arloste offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

Well, as I see it, there are two possibilities:

A. She made up some “health issue” and has some malicious intent or want to yank your chain just to be cruel.

B. She actually has a “health issue” maybe something stupid like acne or whatever that she’s afraid will turn you away if/when you get more intimate. Or maybe something else…

I would guess it’s B. So either try to be compassionate, figure out what the problem is and tell her it doesn’t bother you…or just give her time.

Some people are highly self-critical and something that seems minor to other people, like bad mild back-acne or something, in their eyes is so humiliating that they won’t do certain things.

Then again…it could be a more serious kind of “health issue”

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1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

sounds like she just isn’t ready but doesn’t want to lose your attention.

patience could pay off… if you really like this girl.

but… if she isn’t communicating with you well enough… move on.

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Kristina567 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Just be careful…I’ve had lots of girls use me. Always proceed with caution.

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