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well, i met a girl at a club, i spoke to her for a while got her number and we kissed.

the next day i txt her askin how she was etc, n abit l8r on i asked if she wanted to meet up and get 2 no each other better. she replyed saying we can but i havn’t got much time atm cus of uni and work, i said thats fine and asked her what she is doing at the weekend she txt bk work n that she wasn’t really looking to be with any1 atm. and i said yea thats fine just because we would meet doesn’t mean that we willl start a relationship i just wana get 2 no u abit better. she said ok and she apoligised because she couldn’t meet. (obv they ent the excact words we used but u get the picture) anyway… i was wondering if thats a gd sign that she is intrested in me but like she said she just hasn’t got enuf time for a bf or sommit working towards it if uno wat i mean…. or if she just said that because she’s not intrested? any help would be gd thnx!

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

So sorry to break it to you but it seems like she doesn’t really like you. That sounds harsh but I don’t know what other way to put it.

I’m sure there will be the perfect match for you out there somewhere.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

I don’t want this to come across as mean, but I do believe that you should take the himt, and leave her alone.

She has told you in not so many words, that she is not interested. Whether that be because she doesn’t have time or there is another reason that she may not be being honest about. She’s told you, and you should respect that and move on.

I can understand how hard and frustrating when you really really like someone, but when the other party doesn’t express the same urge to get together, it’s a no go.

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1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

well yea i have respected her and i ent txt her since, i just wanted to no if i had a chance or not n obv not =[ well cheers nyway =]

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

Man **** happens. We say ” Bros before hoes “. So **** that. Don’t think about her so much and stress your mind. You just met this girl in a club. You should have taken her home and shag her until she cries.

Peace ;)

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