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okay, well, i dated this guy in june, he was 18 and i was 14.

we were really good friends. we only dated for a week. i turned 15 a month later and he started saying perverted disgusting stuff to me. my parents found out and said we couldn’t talk ever again or they would press charges on him. we continued to talk for like another two weeks and then we got in this argument because he didn’t think we shouldn’t talk anymore and i still wanted to talk because i still kind of liked him. and he thought i didn’t respect him or something. after that, we didn’t talk. we still go to school together and i see him almost everyday. i don’t think he hates me or anything but i want to start talking to him again. i kind of miss him. like we were so close, we would spend hours on the phone until 5am. and then we just stopped talking. i could comment or message him on myspace but i don’t know what to say?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

Perhaps just leave the situation be. Someone your own age would probably be better for you.

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soc0ut offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

Yea, however much you hate these answers. It could be better for both of you to leave the situation as it is.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 123 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

If I fond out my 14 or 15 year old daughter was going out with a 18 or 19 year old guy, that guy would have his nuggets hanging from his ears! He says perverted stuff to you because he wants to take your virginity away! Jail bait, you are going to get this man arrested! 15 will get him 20!

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

Your relationship with this person can result in him being arrested and being listed as a pedophile.

I don’t blame him for backing out, but he should not have got involved in the first place.

Your parents have already threatened him with Police action, so he can not be blamed for back peddling at full speed. He has probably now realised how dangerous this situation is for him.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 123 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

You are way too young to worry about an 18 year old guy. There is only one thing on his mind!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

oh my…I agree with the rest of the replies. You should just leave things the way they are. It could cause trouble for both of you. I think you should stick to someone around your age.

littlenick wrote:
If I fond out my 14 or 15 year old daughter was going out with a 18 or 19 year old guy, that guy would have his nuggets hanging from his ears! He says perverted stuff to you because he wants to take your virginity away! Jail bait, you are going to get this man arrested! 15 will get him 20!

lmao! Nice nick. xD

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

This dude was a sicko, perverted stuff?

then that makes him perverted atleast he came to his senses, m sorry I know you like him, but a guy like that isnt right, he needs help,and yopu need to have better taste in guys.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

hmmmm what can you say to a someone that talks perverted to you to get his attention. How about, “I wanna have your baby?”.

Dear “I kinda miss him” is not a good reason to stay in touch with someone that disrespects you. Please try to forget about him. Older guys are usually looking for younger women because of only a couple of reasons. ONE - they believe they can better control a younger woman… or TWO - they are so immature themselves they cannot deal with a woman their own age. This can work at first, but as the woman matures the relationship begins to fall about because the moron guy can’t deal with it. A good rule of thumb… while you are in school (including college) stick to guys your own age.

Bright blessings ~ Richard

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cicidaone2envy offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 13 minutes after post)

i know how u feel i went through the same thing. if u miss him go up to him and confront him when he’s alone. tall him how u feel and that what happened between u to was stupid. that when ever u and him have a fight u can’t keep breaking up. life is full of struggles and u have to work them out.

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