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how upset/worried should i be?

i was browsing people on myspace and saw my boyfriend’s ex picture come up. his ex is now married to one of his really good friends and they have two small kids. so, i know he does see her every once in awhile when he goes to his friend’s house. so, at first, i didn’t think anything of it and i went about my business ..but something told me to go back and look.
when i looked at her pictures, i’d saw 6-7 pictures of my boyfriend on there. some with him and his friend, two of them with my boyfriend and her kids and like 3 of them were just him by hiself. these pictures were also recent. i could tell because he got his eyebrow pierced only 3? months ago and it was pierced in the photos.
am i wrong to be pissed off that she’s taking silly pictures of him and posting them up on her myspace? i mean forgive me, but i don’t like that. i mean i do know his friend (her husband) was there ..but it still bothers the hell out of me.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it and ask him if he has seen her recently if he tries to hide it then you have a right to be pissed. If he tells you then I dont think he has anything to hide and it really is all innocence with his friend. Then you should talk to him about how you feel regarding the pictures and see if he talk to her about them. Or if them hanging together makes you upset have your boyfriend invite his friend to hang out at his or your home instead

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1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

he admited he was there. i don’t have a problem if he *sees* her, i’m not that crazy, lol. but her taking photos and posting them up.. bothers me.
i asked him about the photos and he didn’t lie. he said him and his friend were hanging out, he even described some of the photos. he said she took a few pictures (of both my boyfriend and his friend) and him and his friend took a few photos, so he claims it wasn’t only her. i don’t think i believe that part. he said he knows how it looks but he honeslty didn’t do anything wrong..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

If you think it’s weird for the pictures to be there (which I would say is true) ask him what he would think if another guy had pictures of you on his myspace. I think it’s very strange for a married woman to have pictures of another man on her myspace. It would be different if they were pictures of him in a group, but him alone, and more than one? thats just plain odd.I have a feeling you can solve the issue by being straight up about it.

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1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

he said he didn’t know they’d be on there.. that they were just taking them out of fun, he didn’t expect her (or anyone) to post them anywhere. they aren’t doing anything bad, just making goofy faces.
to me, it looked as if all the pictures that were taken were just directly uploaded? she also labeled him “uncle” in one of the pictures with the kids. WTF?
i actually did ask him that question. i said “how would you feel if one of my ex’s had my pictures up, even if they were married to one of my close friends?” i was so upset ..i can’t even remember what he said now.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 hours, 44 minutes after post)

talk to him, he needs some sense talked into him

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