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NEVER BEEN KISSED :(

arghh so i’m 16 going on 17 and actually have never had a bf or been kissed. i go to a private girls school and don’t have any guy friends what so ever. could i sound any more pathetic. Im not just some ugly chick or without personality or an absolute *****…
well i guess there should be some question in my rant. When is the perfect age to be kissed how should a get a find a guy (but not just for the sake of it..)

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soc0ut offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Yes, don’t kiss someone just to kiss someone. :-)

Its not bad, that you’ve never kissed someone, dare I say its rather sweet. I wish so often I could have saved the few kisses I’ve given out for the sweetheart I marry.

There is not a set date, rather it falls to your heart to decide who deserves your kiss. Please don’t look at it as if you’ve missed out, only that your saving the experience.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

but it sucks. what im really dreadig is fromal net year cause i’ll either go alone (which isnt that uncommon at my school) find some random from a friend or just not go

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soc0ut offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

You can have fun without guys, we’re not that great. ;-)

Its a whole year ahead!!

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thenoots offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

You really have nothing to worry about. The truth is that it is much easier for a girl to get a guy to kiss her than the other way around. It’s not lame that you haven’t kissed anyone. I’m 21 now and didn’t kiss a girl until I was 19 (and I’m not ugly nor do I have a terrible personality either). It does feel great but don’t just kiss anyone. If you’re having trouble getting asked out, ask some guy out that YOU like. It’s not desperate, I think most guys appreciate it. From there, it’s just a matter of finding someone you like to kiss you, or you kiss him, whatever. Don’t obsess over it, it’s not a big deal.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (33 minutes after post)

my first kiss, i was 17 and it was with the guy that everyone liked - and i was so nervous and excited. and it was terrible!

but it has been… 11 years of wonderful kisses since then… so don’t worry about it, even if the first kiss is terrible - all will turn out well!

hopefully it will be great when it does happen!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

thanks everyone. i appreciate it. makes me feel a lil better about it…

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circle_of_iron offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Don’t worry…these things happen from time to time, you have your whole life to kiss and more;) just wait till it feels right:)

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 3 minutes after post)

come to think of it, i should make or invent a kissing Machine .Wonder if there is such a thing???

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soc0ut offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Probably in an Adult store…

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Amber (: offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 43 minutes after post)

lol, i didnt get my first kiss (from a guy) till i was in year 9. do it when your ready and know its right.

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cicidaone2envy offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 57 minutes after post)

kissing isnt everything just take your time and when you meet the right guy it well happen. and if u want guy friend go place where you think lots og people would want to hangout and make friends. that preety much what i did when i was 14. trust me your first is’nt like the movies it’s just 2 lips touching and afterward you’ll think it’s awaste of time.

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nenelindodecor offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 hours, 4 minutes after post)

ok so u never been kiss hey u should be happy because most of the time one kiss lead’s to more than a kiss try talking to boys in ur neighborhood or going to a park someone will find u atractive

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DrinkAwayMyPain offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 hours, 42 minutes after post)

find some one u really like and kiss them you need to hurry before you start feeling insucure about yourself

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floyd_grrr offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Just to say you… You are not the only one!
I`m also 17 and the situation is the same. Sometimes I feel really weird about that, but I hope that it will come at the right moment, it just has to :)

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