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i hate the world, and i don’t know why.

i’ve never been a person with a bad temper, but everything seems to annoy me and bother me now. i would love to fix it, but im not even sure what the source of it is. i seriously do not like much of anything anymore

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

You sound very dissatisfied.
How’s your life? Are you in a bit of a rut, are things really boring for you…that may be the cause of some of your feelings.

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anon12341234ano offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

Annoy and bother.. I associate those words with anger. Maybe the problem is that you /expect/ the world to be a certain way, and that’s why you hate it so much. Well, you’ll have to accept that the world just is the way it is, and it always will be. You can’t change a lot of things. You can slightly influence some, but your influence (Unless you’re a world leader of some sort) isn’t that powerful. So realize this: your influence is basically this much:

1
— = Your influence
world population

Not a very large sum now, is it?

The wise decision is this: expect the world not to work as you please it to, and you will not be angry when it behaves as it _normally_ does! The sooner you accept this, the sooner you will be happy.

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

i hate it too, but it hated me back. and ignored me.
so i reconcile and live happily ever after. i need the world
more than it needs me.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 73 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

Hating the world is normal. The world is quite f**ked at the moment.

But not knowing why…

That’s kind of scary.

Haven’t you been paying attention?

The things to make you pissed off at the world are everywhere.

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the lost offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

Well, the world does suck, hopefully we can try a new one soon.

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Crazy.Ω.Firework offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

I already know I don’t belong here. :)

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paolodimucci offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (51 minutes after post)

I agree with anon… the world is the framework you live in. If you start judging the framework, expecting things, you are going to suffer without reaching any worthwhile goal… and remember: the worst your framework is, the nobler of you to be different and help people around you!

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kibble offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 hours, 17 minutes after post)

PLEASE consider something besides ‘the world’ issues. Is it possible you have low thyroid (hypoglycemia)? Would you be able to see a doc and get bloodwork done? I ask because I was in a rather downward spiral - low, low energy, irritable, short temper, disillusioned, etc. I noticed it but it never occured to me it could be ME, I just thought it was everything else. Got the bloodwork done only because I got a physical and went on levothyroxine (smallest dose) and BAM! within a couple days it was like I was a brand new person.

The world is hard, this is true. Life is, absolutely, not fair… and it never will be. There are no ‘rules’ in the way life works out and that is what is so. Wishing it were different, man - this is big, creates our own anguish. Sometimes humans are pretty inhumane (to the planet, to each other, to animals, etc.) - this is not fair. But each of us being the best person we can possibly be (which is the ONLY thing in life we can actually control) is our strength and the more we hold ourselves accountable for OURSELVES the better the journey will be.

Best wishes

p.s. anon1234 and okei have GREAT thoughts.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

im not mad at the “world” litterally. i was using that as an expression. and yes, anger is one thing that occurs, but i can’t seem to stop being annoyed. i try to relax and let things come as they do, but i can’t seem to act the way i used to.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

i also don’t doubt that it is me at all. im not saying the world is a bad place, im saying that no matter how good or bad it is, im just constantly irritable. and i have no idea why

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kibble offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Hi Anon - sorry to be so slow to check back (traveling).

PLEASE, if you haven’t done it yet, get to the doctor to rule out a medical/hormonal situation. It could be the answer. And, if it’s not a problem you can then rule that out.

Go easy on yourself… please get this checked out and then give me a shout (you can give me a shout anytime) so I don’t miss your post.

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Davidkabuy offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

hey i hate the world too man, i think i need help, its just that sociey seems to throw all sorts of **** at me that fill me with fear.e.g. the stakes of not believing in God are eternal Damnation apparently. But at the other end of the spectrum ruling God out is like ruling out only makes me colder and more detached and fearful(how can i begin to imagine the deaths of babies and children ultimately ends their, there has to be a place for them too). I mean **** this worlds pretty scary.. **** this i dont even know what im sayin im just and adolescent boy whos ****** hoping this fear is just a phase.. because at times its paralizing.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 73 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

We get you, man. Register your account, and make this it’s own post. You’ll get tons of help that way.

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