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Y is everything so impersonal nowadays?

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I hate how all anyone wants to do is text eachother or myspace it up or at least things of that sort. I like doin those things too but there is a time when u get sick of not hearing or seeing the people you’re talking to. It’s so freakin annoying. Even jobs now have their applications online. How can u make a good first impression like this? I understand that you’re probably not gonna be talking to your employer when u get the app but still it could happen

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

An email and online communication is generally instant, where as the old days of sending communication through land mail is just far too slow to keep up with the people of modern society today.

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (43 minutes after post)

I hate it too. I mean some couples only text or write eachother on facebook w/o having one long conversation on the phone. I dont have text anymore because i went over the bill :( so now i have to call everyone. I do miss texting terribly but i rather talk to a perso than text them. Thats if i like them and dont mind talking

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

These new technologies don’t have to be used but a lot of them have been designed to save time. Employers might request an online application in the first instance but they will want to meet with you before offering you a job. It is important that you can make the right impression on paper (electronically) as well as face to face.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour after post)

I agree.
I mean sure, e-mailing, IMing, texting, etc are all good ways to communicate, simply because they’re convinent, especially if you don’t have much time to talk or if you’re also busy doing something else. Personally, I’d much rather call the person or even see them in person. Texts and e-mails can only go so far before you feel loss of connection and sometimes, think it’s easy for the person on the other end to get the wrong idea unless you’re constantly using smileys.

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

Well a lot of jobs will involve using computer applications. The employer will know that you are computer literate from the start. As for friends and stuff I always call text and e mail depending what it is about. sometimes its nice to send an e mail to your boyfriend and follow it up later when you get home from work. It’s completly down to you how personal or imperssonal you are with your friends.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 44 minutes after post)

You can make a good first impression over the net with an application by writing a good cover letter, as well as how professionally done up your CV is. Also, every job I’ve had over the past few years has involved using technology, by applying on-line they will know that your computer literate.

And all the close friends I have I make sure that I keep in regular contact in person, texting and myspace and the like I use for people that are fun to talk to but I’m not all that close too.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 days, 7 hours after post)

I know right…
It’s okay to get on myspace and talk from time to time but then there’s stalkers that literally sit all day in front of the computer screen like there’s nothing else to do. I don’t like it, I talk on myspace to my friends that moved to other countries and stuff but I rarely ever get on. And I would much rather see them in person too.

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