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1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

its could be worse. your favorite person in the world right now could be dead. You could have to do hw RIGHT as you get home, and be forced to study. You could have to be writing or doing somethign productive on the computer EVERY time you go on (donttellonme…) You could have to endure a terrible older brother who physically abuses you. You could have to deal with a temper tantrum like da who screams a lot. You could have to deal with no watching tv at all, having your food limited. Not being allowed in relationahips at all. Having your parents not allow you to spend time with your best friend, who youve known since yuo were 3. Have your other friend be total adfjkl;s and copy you, annoy you, so on so forth, and have teachers pick on you and other people tease you all the time.
HMM. Life sucks, really?

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Wannabe. offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Wow, that sounds seriously suckish.
Parents do have their downsides. I know that in a few years time I’ll appreciate all the crap that they threw at me but at the moment it’s a bit annoying.
And not allowed to watch anime?
LE GASP!
I guess you gotto live through your time. You DID do something you weren’t meant to.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

You can love anybody you want to. Perhaps you just can’t show that person how much you love them at the present time. Your parents are looking out for your best interests. If they grounded you so be it. Life hands you lemons?? You can choose to sit there and pout about it or make lemonade. Your choice. Why do you think you love someone 3 years older than yourself anyway??

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quizzie offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longwood, FL, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

annonymous. i do hve to do hw as soon as i get home. and am forced to study. i have three sisters that abuse me. i dont eat.
life sucks. really.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

is the closest person to you in your life dead. Did a stupid cancer go and take his life away from you when he was only 9. Is your sweet little brother gone forever? trust me. its like im being beaten day and night. I cant sleep. I want to kill myself but I cant. itsucksbad.

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=Adam= offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Riverton, NJ, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

quizzie wrote:
i dont eat.

Of your own accord? Are you anorexic? That could be serious.

Wait out your grounding and try to loosen up and go out with someone your own age. Don’t get stressed over anything really. Just sit back, relax, and enjoy life!


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xlaceupurshoes offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (52 minutes after post)

you need to stand up to your parents.
love does not have an age limit.
and if ur parents judge you on that, its bs.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

[quote quizzie]annonymous. i do hve to do hw as soon as i get home. and am forced to study. [quote]

Oh my god, your parents want you to have a good education and graduate?!?! How dare they!!! I can’t believe your parents care about your safety and well being. That’s just awful.

I know things seem so awful to you right now. But someday you’ll look back on this and think nothing of it. Trust me. You may even thank them.

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1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

for me it isnt the fact that they make me do my homework, bu ti think they should let me when, say before the nighttime. Dont plop me home on the couch and spaz at me if I say a word to my sister first. Dont yell at me to get it started if I have to go to the bathroom. It would be nice to have 30 minutes beforehand to relax, read, or just sit there!
Safety, safety? What does safety have to do with my homework. “oh freaken no, I didnt do my homework my teachers gonna kill me” Yeah, it doesnt work that yea. I woulnt call my parents converned for my safety if they let my brother punch me and kick me and hurt me, and push me around. I used to bruise a lot, but my bodys gotten so used to it, I hardly do, but hey, it still hurts, bad. real safe, huh?

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

to anonymous #
Someday you’ll realize just how ungreatful and whiney you sound right now.

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1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

thanks. its really good to know that right now, as ai sit at the computer, any second my parent or brother could come up, push me across the room, smack me, punch me, hit me, who knows what they have planned, and you tell me I sounds whiney. Thanks.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 7 minutes after post)

wow yea, your life totally sucks.
you have food, a roof over your head, a computer for homework, and all paid for by your parents. yup. your life is reeeeeally ****.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Most welcome anon.

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1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

who said its all paid for. who said i get food all the time. Yeah. a meal every day. I guess its better than some people. I guess its good i have a whole 30 minutes to do my homework. I guess its great im abused.
MAN ISNT LIFE WONDERFUL! I just love people being be mean to me all the time. I love being yelled at for things I didnt do. I love not having my brother with me anymore. i love having to do all these things I dont want to. LIFE IS GREAT. NOT

shure im better off than some. But if everyone said that, life would be pointless.\
so you can shuddup about how im being an ungrateful little wretch. thankyouandgoodbye.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

yeeea, ima keep to my opinion, seeing as your life is just so bad and so restricted yet here you are on Help.com all the time answering this post.
grow up kid.

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xlaceupurshoes offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

dude
seriously
u need to go see someone
for help

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

Amen urine.
1 word:
Wwwwaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

Yes. Im sitting here on help.com switching between this and a fake essay, one my parents jsut decided ‘HECK Im gnona make you do an essay cause you dont spend enough time studying already!’
so yeah. its great having to be super discreet and switch between windows all the time. its just wonderful

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

for real man. just admit youre a whiney little kid who really, really, really needs to grow up.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

whiney little kid. whiney little kid. whiney little kid.
Who the heck are you to talk?

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

im an adult with a job, at school, studying hard and paying my own way through it, paying rent, paying phone, electricity, and food. im someone who supports themselves and works **** hard for it, because i wasnt able to rely on my parents for everything.
thats who i am.
who are you? sitting here complaining how your life is so restricted yet youre on help.com, complaining how you have to study too much then saying you only get a half hour to study, moping about how your cushy life is just so terrible.
open your eyes kid, and maybe youll see just how idiotic youre making yourself sound.
btw, you posted under your name. so replying anonymously seems somewhat retarded.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

LOL i just realised youre not even the poster. way to hijack someones post man, geez. go make your own whiney post eh.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

Im a kid working in school working a job, working for food and still nto gettin much. When I get that far in my life I bet I wont get any support. In fact I know I wont. my brother was, and who the heck knows where he is now.
My life is far from cushy, and your one to talk. I study I work hard. I know I do all that stuff cause I have to unless I want my life to be even worse than it already is.
and wow your smart arent you.
idiotic loser :).
I was being nice and showing someone that they should be happy their life isnt as suckish as mine.
Im still laughing at your supreme idiocy. and since you think im so pivleged, Ill go eat something now, heywait, I cant! No dinner tonight because I came home with a 98%.
TOOBAD FOR ME.
I guess im just being whiney.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

your story changes every 5 seconds, so i dont believe a word you say.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

im unsubbing now, i came to this post to talk to the POSTER, not a whiney little liar who hijacks others posts.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

Hijacks posts.
I was trying to give them advice and say ‘hey LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE. ust cause your parents dont let you see some guy you like, its better than my situation.
andhey. when did my story change. I dont give details till you ask. and if you wanna go away so you dont have to talk to this ‘whiney post hijacking ungrateful little liar’ then go ahead. I dont care what you have to say cause at least you are an adult actually in school, and if you say you have to work and study so hard, maybe you should get your lazy bum off this site and stop complaining about me complaining.

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quizzie offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longwood, FL, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 3 hours after post)

okay.
well. anon. one thing STOP CHANGING YOUR STORY.

to everyone else. i am not anorexic. just have no interest in eating food.
i love him because i can just be myself, and know he would never judge me. always care for me, and love me for me. i just happen to feel the same way about him. every time i see him, i just go into shock realizing that this amazing person is waiting for me.
i cannot go out with someone else, no one can compare, ive been asked out, but i cant get out of the house, plus i just am not interested in them. at all.
i am sitting it out. its just getting ridiculous now as it has been a month already.
im going crazy.
the hw rule, i dont care about that. i want to get it out of the way anyway so i can go sleep.
when i can sleep
which is almost never
i wish i just could be allowed to hang out with him outside of school.
=[

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xlaceupurshoes offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 7 hours after post)

haha
this is stupid
go do your homework

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

Im not changing my story.
I did my homework. and I give up on you idiots in this world. Do you understand the word elaboration? Do you understand that I was actually trying to help the poster until people had to come tell me to stop complaining. How bout saying that to the poster?
And so your complaining because you cant see a guy outside of school.
OHTHETERROR
its not like youll be with your parents all your life so stop being so whatever about it.
Im ditching this post. You guys dont understand what its like being me. So whatever.
bye.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 days, 17 hours after post)

Yay!!!!

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quizzie offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longwood, FL, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

W/e
Dont have time to deal w/ u ppl

Your not the one who is being threatened to be sent out of the country to go to live with your uncle back in england so you dont see him again.
You were saying?

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Who’s W/e?

That sounds like an awesome opportunity!! I’d give my left arm for an opportunity like that.

Sure it’s going to be a huge adjustment and all. But some day you’ll look back and thank your lucky stars you have a family willing to take care of you like this. And who knows, something far better than you EVER could have imagines could be waiting for you just down the line.

I’m sure right now it feels like your world is caving in, but there’s always something worth waiting for just around the bend. :)

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=Adam= offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Riverton, NJ, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

w/e=whatever

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quizzie offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longwood, FL, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

srry. chatspeak

he stopped waiting. he said it was because he cant stand it when my parents are yelling at me, just because of him. hes stopped. i cant believe it. i just cant give him up.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

I’m really sorry honey. That must hurt so bad. :( Well if he doesn’t think you’re worth waiting for, than maybe he’s not worth your wait either! ;)

hugs. You’ll find someone even better.

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quizzie offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longwood, FL, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 weeks after post)

hopefully
it doesnt help he has a new gf and hickies on his neck.
argh
i hate liars =[

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 weeks after post)

See? He’s not worth your worry and pain. He’s a jerk. :)

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quizzie offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longwood, FL, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

yea
but im still grounded.
and i have to see them round school
i am glad now that he is leaving next year.

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systa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

You are fat, who would even like to go out with you at first place, probably some drug addict.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

first of all systa its peices of **** like u who noone needs to be listening to…thats just the most immature and most childish thing i’ve ever read. Man there are some cruel ppl in the world…

Anyhow katherine, you don’t know me and i don’t know u..i somehow stumbled on this convo and decided to throw my 2 cents in. I never followed this convo from the very top to bottom i’ve just read a few comments here and there.

In my oppinion love cannot be stopped. If u love someone then you love someone, noone can help how they feel nor can they prevent sure they can try but it’s only going to slow down the enevitable anyhow. 3 years older than you is no big deal but your parents are just looking out for your best intrests i guess but i know you feel cornered and outgunned here but for the time being you gotta just go with the flow ya know. Good things happen to people who wait….remember that.

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