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is it wrong to stay with my partner becos

1) we get along
2) we want to start a business together
3) we both dont want to be alone
or is it doomed for failure?

any advice greatly appreciated

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

What? Could you clarify what exactly you’re talking about? How can we answer this? We don’t predict the future, here.

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laurenbeast offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

i don’t think so.
make sure you guys keep up a good level of communication.
and don’t get freaked out if you guys argue, everybody disagrees sometimes.
just relax, talk it out, and find a solution.
give each other lots of hugs afterwards 3

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penny_lane offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

nobody can really help you. you need to trust your instincts

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Plox Nork offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (40 minutes after post)

Depends on how old you are..

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Island offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

Reading between the lines here, but I would hazard a guess that what you are really asking is, is it wrong to stay with your partner for practical reasons because you aren’t in love with him/her anymore?

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indebtedto offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (52 minutes after post)

correct Island

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Island offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (54 minutes after post)

Where are you both in your stages of life? Do you have children?

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indebtedto offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (55 minutes after post)

should we stay together for practical reasons.no one is getting any younger,we do ooerate our business

to answer your question

im md 30s ,shes early and we have no kids. i feel lost ,she loves me more than i love her.

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Island offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Well, it makes it easier having no kids, considering the decision you are thinking about.

I think it all depends on what is important to you. To feel comfortable and have a business thats working? Or do you want to take a risk on ending things and find a relationship that makes you truly happy?

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indebtedto offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

thanks island for all your help.gotta go ,partner is coming.

thank you

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Island offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Good luck :)

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 hours, 34 minutes after post)

indebtedto;

Check out this webpage. since you are saying partner I guess your not married, but the principles of a failing relationship are the same. While now you say you don’t love her as much as she loves you, it doesn’t need to stay that way and there are ways to rekindle or even create for the first time feeling necessary to stay together.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/

if you are unwilling to try or this doesn’t help, I would say that it would be wrong to stay with your partner if she loves you but you don’t love here. It would be wrong for you to lead her on in that manner and will hurt her more as time goes by. It will be inevitable that you will find someone else to love and then would really hurt her.

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