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Maybe she was just trying to get to know you? What makes you think it was a joke? Have you been made fun of before?

Do you think she’s like that?

Are you an insecure person yourself?

well speaking from experience… i was that hot senior girl that gave the cute lone boy a ride home…

and it was because i totally liked him.

and … you’re cute.

i don’t see why she would want to sabotage you.

Anonymous wrote:
well speaking from experience… i was that hot senior girl that gave the cute lone boy a ride home…and it was because i totally liked him.and … you’re cute.i don’t see why she would want to sabotage you.

This is not a joke?

I don’t think she was being just nice.

I mean she did offer you a ride. and if she really didn’t consider you as a friend or whatever I Dont think she would’ve offered you one.

i wasn’t joking and i called him a few days later to hang out on the weekend and he said he was too busy and we never hung out again…

i wonder if he was in your position?

that would suck… because i really did like him. :)

Well if anon says who she says she is. Narcissus now it’s your chance to talk to her.

Girls are just inherently nice and polite. The male mind likes to kick into overdrive and think otherwise.

Well Jo……Narc, id say your a good looking guy and do you think she is the kind of person who would hurt a guy like you? I are you still the same as last year? your all cute and innocent, and i dont think she would just be out to joke with you like that

i just sent a reply and it didn’t show up… i don’t know why i went all anonymous on you… but hey this is me - that previous anon person.

anyway… i wasn’t joking. i really liked him. and when i called him to hang out that weekend he said he was busy. and we never hooked up.

i wonder if he was feeling like you?

that stinks… because i really did like him.

If i were in this situation, i would not go, then lie and say i had to do something important like go to my cats funeral.. ive done something like this before and it worked…

Vilén wrote:
Girls are just inherently nice and polite. The male mind likes to kick into overdrive and think otherwise.

Pfff…. yeah…

hmmm…i wouldnt have done that.. might as well go right?? do you know other people who are going?? im guessing not. but you might as well go, if something isnt right you can always leave. i dont see much risk involved in in, but im stupid..

Sometimes cute girls talk to us (insecure guys) to bring us out of your shells. Narcissus you seem to be in a shell where you feel very protected. You need to come out and show yourself to this young lady! Let her know who you are and show her that you too can be fun!

if its a costume party, you can go with a mask, if it ends up being a joke you can leave and no one would be the wiser

AreWeAllTheSame wrote:
if its a costume party, you can go with a mask, if it ends up being a joke you can leave and no one would be the wiser

Good point!

seriously… you should talk to her… take it slow. the shell is probably what is attracting her in the first place.

:)

yea … go to the costume party and the invisible man with your head in an ace bandage. :)

The way i see it.. You come to this party right? she opens the door, and screams, what are you doing here? and make you look like an idiot…

Listen Narcissus I invited about 24 people to come to help you. I hope you’re soaking some of this in!

if you have on a mask, you can go in without being noticed. especially if its a big party.

Orrrr you can just ask the girl about the party for further details??

or go and not dress up at all?

You will never grow out of the box you are in, if you don’t step out of it once in a while. Think outside the box…ACT outside the box. If you never stretch outside of your comfort zone, you will forever be locked into it. Comfy… yes maybe… but it is hard to watch the world go by with some of the things that will never be included in your little box.

What I’m trying to say is you have to take risks in this life if you want to have an extraordinary life. Risk being hurt by her. Your pain is NOTHING to her karma is it is all a joke; trust me. And on the flip side… a nice, cute senior is nice to have as a friend :)

Bright blessings ~ Richard

Thank you for coming Richard. Don’t forget we’re still friends.

Are you still here Narcissus?

Oh please! Narcissus she likes you! There is no way this chic is going to offer you a lift and ask you to a party if she didn’t like you! Go on take a risk. Be a daredevil. He who dares…….
and if she turns out to be a *****! I will personally come down there and give her what for!!

Sounds to me that she is interested in you. She didn’t have to offer to give you a ride home. I would take it that she is showing interest in you, and ask her out. Invite a few friends so she would feel more at ease. Go ahead and ask… What do you have to loose ? Even if she says no which I doubt, it would be no different then the time before you had this ride encounter in the first place. No girl is so nice that she would invite a male into her car if she wasn’t interested in him. Be happy, and present her with the invite get together. Let us know what happens….. Best of luck :)

so maybe she wants to be friends then

well that puts a different spin on things if she has a boyfriend. Maybe she wants to break up with him, and pick you? Since she does have the boyfriend then DOn’T ask her, until when and if she becomes unattached. Friendship first anyways….

Sounds like she wants to be a friend, thats good. I don’t think shes aiming to betray you in anyway. I say go out and have some fun.

Well you’re a cute looking guy but if she has a boyfriend then maybe its slightly different….you don’t wanna be going out with someone who is going out with someone else. Even if she wants to play away from home you maybe could do without the hassle. So treat it as a friend thing

If she wants to just be friends with you, then maybe she has other friends ;)

littlenick wrote:
Thank you for coming Richard. Don’t forget we’re still friends.

NP Littlenick… got ya covered on the friends thing.

Narcissus wrote:
yea..Im here(but she has like a boyfriend and he like lives like down the block I dont think she is intreseted in me that way)

well maybe she just knows you live in the neighborhood and was giving a friendly gesture with the ride.

if i were you i would maintain friendliness with her. wave, at least. :)

who knows… she could be the one you end up running into when you are 34 visiting your family for christmas… and hit it off.

awwww Sahara… that sounds soooo romantic.

hey i have a couple more years… you never know… i suppose Timothy the shy lonely walking boy could show up again!

:)

that fishy fishy thing seems ominous however.

Narcussus you need to open up to her and let her know that you want to be friends. The most amazing romances in history started with just a simple friendship!

littlenick wrote:
Narcussus you need to open up to her and let her know that you want to be friends. The most amazing romances in history started with just a simple friendship!

:D

he speaks truth.

Littlenick that was clever and so funny …. maybe she has other friends, lol. lol….

littlenick wrote:
Narcussus you need to open up to her and let her know that you want to be friends. The most amazing romances in history started with just a simple friendship!

yes. Yes they do! Anyways, Narcissus, just be friends. No rush. I honestly don’t believe she’s jokin go and have a good time, or if you feel like it’s too much, then ask her about it.

well i wouldnt trust her, but im really paranoid. maybe she thinks your hot or something? you did get hotter.