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How serious was your relationship with him? How long were you two together?

It’s normal. How can you ever really forget a love? Personally I don’t want to. Yeah I know it’s painful to remember a lost love… but dang…it was LOVE what’s wrong with love? The problem alot of people have is it’s ONLY the love they remember. We have to remember the whole person. We have to remember the reason we ‘broke up’… we have to remember all the abuse at the end of the relationship. Remembering is not bad… not moving forward is bad. And it sounds to me like you are moving forward. This is your pain time… the other side of love’s coin. It will pass with time.
Bright blessings ~ Richard

it was serious for me…like i tot i was gonna marry him soon. A year together

If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you?

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♥ tiffany. wrote:
If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you?

im in my 20s

Richard cor de lyon wrote:
It’s normal. How can you ever really forget a love? Personally I don’t want to. Yeah I know it’s painful to remember a lost love… but dang…it was LOVE what’s wrong with love? The problem alot of people have is it’s ONLY the love they remember. We have to remember the whole person. We have to remember the reason we ‘broke up’… we have to remember all the abuse at the end of the relationship. Remembering is not bad… not moving forward is bad. And it sounds to me like you are moving forward. This is your pain time… the other side of love’s coin. It will pass with time.
Bright blessings ~ Richard

i have trying to move on for the past one year or so…it has been a draining one year. I felt so sleepy and tired everytime.

ashr wrote:
people, its natural. i’ve got a friend with the same problem

how long more will this take?

well… I’m wondering if now you are longing for your ex… or are you longing for companionship that reminds you of your ex. What alot of forget about is that while we are in a relationship we sort of become someone new for a bit. We shouldn’t but we do… and we do it for a good reason… so that other people will love us. So that are relationship hopefully will be smooth. Well… if we change ourself for our partner then we are not all that attractive to others.

the time has come for you to focus now on your Self. Become the person YOU want to be. Become the person you were BEFORE you met your ex… other guys will flock to you.

i do the excat same thing with my ex we was together for 11 months but knew each other b4 hand we split up 3 months ago. i still check his myspace and all the rest the same as you. i even tried to be friends with him. but i have found that by stopping myself from looking at it (which is hard become part ov my daily routine) make me feel a lot better less upset so try to do that. And ur gonna miss and long for him its natural they are such a hug part ov ur life then there gone your gonna miss them nd no other person in this world will replace him right now simply cause they arenot him you need to accept he is not gonna be in your life now its ha to get there but when u do its miles easier good luck i know what ur going through

stuck wrote:
i do the excat same thing with my ex we was together for 11 months but knew each other b4 hand we split up 3 months ago. i still check his myspace and all the rest the same as you. i even tried to be friends with him. but i have found that by stopping myself from looking at it (which is hard become part ov my daily routine) make me feel a lot better less upset so try to do that. And ur gonna miss and long for him its natural they are such a hug part ov ur life then there gone your gonna miss them nd no other person in this world will replace him right now simply cause they arenot him you need to accept he is not gonna be in your life now its ha to get there but when u do its miles easier good luck i know what ur going through

when ur looking at his profile, do u get this feeling that he may be looking at urs too? cos i get that feeling sometimes…but ive been trying to tell myself that he doesnt care anymore.

Richard cor de lyon wrote:
well… I’m wondering if now you are longing for your ex… or are you longing for companionship that reminds you of your ex. What alot of forget about is that while we are in a relationship we sort of become someone new for a bit. We shouldn’t but we do… and we do it for a good reason… so that other people will love us. So that are relationship hopefully will be smooth. Well… if we change ourself for our partner then we are not all that attractive to others.

the time has come for you to focus now on your Self. Become the person YOU want to be. Become the person you were BEFORE you met your ex… other guys will flock to you.

longing for companionship that reminds you of your ex.

nah i put mine to private so he couldn’t lol o and deleted him off it to. for my own sanity i have decided i have to stop doing on mon i thought ican either sit looking at his profile woundering about him or i can let go i know it will take time but i want to look at somones profile who is gonna look back at mine i dont want to have a relationship with memories of him i want a relationship just its not gonna be with him saying that does nt hurt anymore its a sad thought we had so much going for us but see it as his loss