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my gf needs to tell me something but shes has to “wait”

me and my gf were talking yesterday about the fact that i havent told her “i love her” (shes told me) and i had told one of my x’s that before and i explained to her that her and my ex are two different girls and i had known my x for way longer, and then she asked me if i have ever wanted to say something but wanted to wait till the right time?

and i was like ” yeah sure”, and then she told me she has to wait all the way to january to tell me.

O_o, i got frustrated cuz i hate when people tell me they gotta tell me something and i have to wait and i never have had to wait that long, she didnt want to tell me what it was and said it was nothing bad but i have to wait. do you guys know what it might be? that takes 3 months to tell me?

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*~Shelly~* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

possibly pregnant but its apparently bad luck in the first 3 months to tell anyone :s i dont know though just come out with it lol x

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zetzer_ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Opa Locka, FL, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

lol i dunno thats kinda messed up for her not tell me, we’re pretty young(19) and i have told her ebfore that i would want an abortion in that case because i dont want a kid yet due to several reasons. but she asid for sure she would tell me in january…

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

some states won’t allow abortion after the first 3 months.

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*~Shelly~* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

yep thats true! x

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*country girl* offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 hours, 31 minutes after post)

*~Shelly~* wrote:
possibly pregnant but its apparently bad luck in the first 3 months to tell anyone :s i dont know though just come out with it lol x

That was my first thought too
have you tried asking if it is about her being pregnant…if you are the dad you have a right to know now rather than later

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zetzer_ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Opa Locka, FL, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 hours, 18 minutes after post)

thats what im saying, and i asked her, she said shes not pregnant and she said it was nothing bad so its hard to guess whichk sucks, any other ideas?

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 hours, 46 minutes after post)

The only other idea then is to learn patience and trust.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 hours, 46 minutes after post)

AND don’t date girls that like to play mind games.

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