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Caring or just plain old insecure?

What do you think. Should I worry? My boyfriend of several months has gotten attached to seeing me every day except 1 day a week and that is because that 1 night is devoted to my school work. He calls me 1 time and if I don’t answer he calls again. If a few hours goes by he contacts my sister or calls my house. And it’s never anything that’s an emergency to talk to me about.He always ask me how my male co-workers are. Especially my co-worker Dave whom I went to school with, use to party with and have worked with over that past 7 years. We got into a conversation about hook-ups on spring break, something I have never took part in. Then he hears that I am talking to a friend from a cruise line I went on.. who lives 1 state over and my guy wants to know if I hooked up with him???? If I am spending a day at grandmas and tells him I will call him later, he still calls me . He calls me atleast 3 times while I am at work and texts me constantly…. I can tell him I need to stay in 1 extra night to catch up on sleep and yet he still calls me and wakes me up. I don’t know what to think… what do you? Help please. This relationship is ending because he doesn’t want to owe up to being insecure. Nor does he want to stop what he is doing which is becoming overly clingy

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

sounds like hes both 2 me. just tell him u want ur space

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

I would like to have a man who was interested in me enough to call and egt jelouse but I think he is being abit way over the top, you do need to have a word with him, just tell him that you know he cares but you can care too much and it will end up pushing you away.

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Tallaght, 07, IE | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

that would get on my nerves. Just don’t answer the phone and tell him later that you were asleep or at your grandmothers and that you didn’t appreciate him calling after you told him what you were goin to be doing. Or just finish it??

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

That sounds pretty creepy, I’m not going to lie. People need there space, and partners need to realise that their respective partners need space.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (56 minutes after post)

a lot of times, him wanting to spend every second with you is the first sign of what may become an abusive relationship. i had a friend who went through the same thing and the relationship ended only after her boyfriend almost cracked her skull open. I would end it now before anything worse happens. hes crazy and obsesive and im sure that you deserve much much better.

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