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So, heading to the beach this weekend with the girl I like.

Iv liked her for a while now and iv finally got the confidence to ask her out to movies and the beach ect. Anyways I’m not a really shy guy and I’m just trying to figure out if I should make a move or not … and how I should go about it. I’m normally really good with girls it’s just this ones really special to me.

Thanks in advance

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

There is no right way to go here, so just putting in my POV.

Do some stuff that indicates to her that you are not just going to the beach with a friend. Girls seem to worry “does he like me”. Put your towel down close to hers. Ask her comfortable and naturally to help you put sunscreen on your back. Smile at her with a cheeky grin.

Bring some food. Sharing a meal is always a good move.

Don’t plan to much about when to “make your move”. If this girl is really special, then there’s no hurry, and you can wait till you know the time is right.

If you really want to plan it, then I suggest just past the breakers after you’ve been swimming for a least 10mins. Swim up to her and touch her hand, and see how she responds.

Best of luck

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greatnorthernlis offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

Look for her cues. If Im into a guy, I stay close to him, or touch him when we’re talking. Tickle her in the water! Girls think that cute. (DO NOT throw her in!!!lol) Bringing food is good too, share something. You’ll be fine, just be natural. Good luck!

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

Good advice. I agree… go with the flow. If you can’t read the signs, then you’re dating too early.

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