Love help: why is it so hard for me to say i love you - Help.com

maybe you don’t mean it

Yea.. Shouldnt be hard if u mean it.. It can also be hard if u dont feel u are loved back.

are you a boy or a girl?

Actually,that’s not true. Just because you can’t say it doesn’t mean you aren’t in love. I had trouble saying it for awhile..and I felt all the love in the world for my b/f. I had never said it to anyone in that context before, and I had been hurt by several junkfaces…so I didn’t want to *give* my heart away just to let that happen again. It took me awhile..he said it waaay earlier than I did..but every time he said it, I felt so happy…I just could not make the words come out of my mouth..because it seemed like usually..when I started letting the walls down around me..they would do something awful..and I’d be hurt again. And I told him this..he was completely understanding and patient with me..but he said he couldn’t *not* say it…but the day I did say it back, he just about cried. AWWW~memories 3

Some people are like that , and tend to show love as opposed to saying it. But when the time is right and you feel at ease with someone, those three words will just pop out, it shouldn’t need planning, if you feel it, then it will usually come. Just do what Lynne did and let them know its hard for you to express verbally. :-)

I know you said that you can’t say it yet, but do you feel it?

If you could say it once, and see the pleasure on her face, maybe that would make you feel more confident to say it again, as lynne says, do you feel it ? if you do it shouldn’t be too hard to say it.

It’s only hard because you make it hard. It’s really that simple.
Do you worry about using the word “happy” too much? It’s a word, nothing more. She knows you love her through your actions. Words only have meaning because we give them meaning. But I do think you should “do what you say and say what you do.”

Take care.

It’s not just you. Alot of people have difficulty saying I love you because they either” Don’t mean it, Don’t wanna say it or have the fear of rejection. Rejection is a big part, but you kinda just have to take that leap and say HEY! I LOVE YOU!! Good luck Zragon

because ur afraid dat da person might leave u and u will feellike u regret saying
but most of all ur afraid